My girlfriend wants to go clubbing

[Cearbhall]

And how do you know she's a Christian? I don't believe the OP ever mentioned that.

You need to stop judging.

Assuming isn't the same as judging. I definitely got the feel from the OP that this is a Christian-Christian relationship where one person's lifestyle is starting to shift.

 

[Paul1963]

My girlfriend and I are struggling right now. We wants to go clubbing to just dance with her girl-friends. But I've been to the same club that she wants to go to and it's a complete grind fest. (I went there before I was christian, just out of highschool).

I was in the car when she was making plans with the girls to go. The same girls asked her to join her to go to a male strip club with them. She told them in a joking way that she wasn't interested.

I told her how I don't think her friends are good influences (they also offered her alcohol while she is underage), her response was that I was being judgement.

Bottom line is I don't feel comfortable with the club. I don't know what to do because we have been dating for 2 years and I don't want to through it away.

Her views on life are changing rapidly which are causing us problems. Such as, she is now pro-choice.

Some words of advice and prayers would be nice.

I see what you wrote and can relate to the situation. I was married for 28yrs I married young and have been divorced now for 6 months. All because my ex and I thought that her going out with some unsavory friends would be fine and that she was just going out for fun. But like you stated they pushed her to drink and ended in a strip club and that was the start of many other sexual improprieties on both our part and it lasted for many years finally ending in divorce. For me I belive that the devil that controls the way the world works and wants this to happen and to break up relationships and leading us to temptation of other things Of this world. Pray on this your self and talk with you girlfriend tell her you thoughts and feelings, if you have a good relationship she will listen.

 

[NewUser777]

Hmmm. Point made.
All this infighting, and over what? The OP only posted once sine Oct. 16th. It is now Dec. 22nd, and where are they at? Besides rolling over laughing at our foolishness.

You're right. I knew I stepped in it when I went against the "girls club".

Still, never assume someone is a Christian because of who they're dating. On the other hand, you can get a pretty good idea by their actions and who their friends are.

 

[Blue Wren]

Assuming isn't the same as judging. I definitely got the feel from the OP that this is a Christian-Christian relationship where one person's lifestyle is starting to shift.

Precisely.