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My girlfriend left me

Dablain

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Good evening everyone. I wanted to post this in the married couples forum but it wont let me.
Here's the thing: my girlfriend just broke up with me after 7 years of relationship. We both are christians but we've been in a long distance relationship for 3 years now because I had to leave for college. At first She said she left me because I'm not a spiritual leader, I admit her faith is strong than mine, and she spend more time reading the Bible than I do. Now she said that God told her to leave me to Him, she said that I was first in her life and God second, and she had to break up with me to give God first place, and I must do the same thing too. What I don't understand is that she doesn't want me back,she says she still loves me but God she is not taking me back, she's not waiting for anyone, but she has to be ready if God gives hee another man, because if ahe loves God the way she supposes to, she will be able to love another man. And she aaid that she knows that God has a bettee woman for me. I wanna truat her, i tried too but none of thia makes since to me. I wanna let go but I can't. I still wanna think that she loves me but part of me thinks that maybe it's because I love her too much. I'd love to know what to do, if she's telling the truth, if I need to move on, and if so how to do that since I love her so much.
I desperately need help.