I want you to think about this very carefully; what made YOUR prayer worth answering over the prayers of children begging their parents to survive an illness only to have them die? Over the prayers of people to end war? Over all the selfless prayers that are aimed at the benefit of others, why was your selfish prayer for more money answered by a god that recommends abandoning worldly wealth?
I'm not suggesting that your prayer wasn't worth answering, I am suggesting that you were making a request the god of the bible would not be likely to respond to. You probably have made tons of prayers just like that one that have never been answered, so why could this have not been coincidence?
First off, I would like to point out, that...this is an excellent question. And I have an answer for you, because after the Lord saved my life in 2009, I got serious about drawing closer to God. I owe Him my life. So I've been studying the Bible, His Word. And I understand why. (It goes further than His word, His Spirit. Reveals things to my spirit. Revelation they call it. (About 60% of the entire Bible was given by visions and revelation!)
And, scripture teaches us that there will be much suffering in this earthly flesh life. Jesus suffered greatly when He was here and died on the cross. They crucified Him! So when we suffer in this life, He considers that suffering with Him, because we are in Him. (In Christ, Christ in us). So when we share in His suffering, then He will let us also share in His glory, after He comes again, and it's the day of the Lord, it's all over the. Judgments and rewards.
But The Lord is so very almighty, and is omnipotent (all powerful), Omniscient (All knowing) and Omnipresent (able to be everywhere at once), so He is able to be everywhere and have a personal relationship with everyone. He is no respecter of men and treats no one better than any other. SO we all have our share of suffering, and yet we all have our chance to have prayers answered...if we ask for Him to help us. In whatever way we have needs. I fully realize that even in my hard times, that I am rich as compared to some in the world who have nothing. I pray these people, sometimes I pray that God may put a little bit of their suffering upon me, so that perhaps...it may give them, to turn their heart to God once again, because they had a good day. And all it would mean for me is that I would have a bad day, perhaps in more pain than usual or something.
But then, who knows, maybe it's a refugee from where their fighting, and some widow saw her family shot down and her house destroyed so had to take off walking and had no spirit left mad at God...whatever. Yeah I'm rich. I was even homeless for the first time in my life a year or so ago. Got unexpectedly kicked out of my Bi-Polar niece's who went off her meds. I slept in my truck for two months. An adventure actually because I am rich (Lol) (comparatively)because I had camping gear. Coffee percolator, torches, camp stove, and related. It really wasn't that big of a deal. I'm used to camping I lived in Colorado, lol. I have been blessed with a super cab (open space behind the front seat) pickup truck to sleep in. (It runs on faith, 1995 lol) but it is much more than some have. And yet God does answer my prayers sometimes because He will and does for everyone. He's that Good. That is the only reason that I could even comprehend why would he answer my prayers. You are right. I don't deserve to have my prayers answered. I m nothing special. I am nothing. But He does!!! Her would for you too. The Bible says, ye have not because ye ask not.
It's...that...simple. Pray to Him. Pray more to Him. Pray unceasingly. Put the ball in His court. And obey Him. Be His representative. Love people, be cool. Helpful to others even perhaps moreso than to myself. I'm trying, and am doing better than before, but still, failing daily pretty much, Lol. But then I'm sorry Lord (get back up) He forgives. Life goes on. We have a lot to look forward too! I'm getting a better heart. I can feel the change and see the change within me. I am a work in progress of the Lord God.
Good answer?
