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My Decision!

wolflady

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I decide to not go dating, romance, boyfriend, etc. It's nothing for me. Now, I'm single forever until I die. I didn't understand about couple and marriage. There are many conflict in all the relationship. I'm giving up and be confused. I haven't a loving for guys and It's nothing for them. My feeling is hopeless.

Christy
 

TCapp

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It is, of course, your decision to make. And I am sorry that you are having a hard time with it. But maybe you should not make a decision that is so final, so "forever" yet.

Since I do not know your thoughts, my advice may or may not be right for you. But perhaps if you form some informed convictions about what you would prefer in a man and in marriage, you'll be on the right path.

If you want to know what God says about it, you can research the Bible about relationships. Perhaps your friends can point you to some areas in the Bible and books about that kind of thing.

But I guess my best advice, if you want it, is to be patient. Give things time. Try to figure out what you really want, and what God wants for you, and maybe some of the confusion will go away.

My prayers are for you. :pray: God bless you. :hug:
 
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Knarf188

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Don't quit =)... God has someone out there for ya... and a relationship in Christ is all about Glorifying God, growing together in Christ... Do not throw away the chance to give God some more Glory which he is rightly due =)... Just have faith and know that He is God... It will all work out...
And watch out now... My friend has been teaching me sign language... she says now I have a better chance in meeting the right one hahaha =)... You never know... Take kare and God Bless...
In Christ,
Frank
 
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