My BF said it is too ugly !Really?

[cecillia321]

Wanna give my BF a big surprise. So I bought this cool Jacket for him secretly. Who knows. He doesn't like it. He said its not his style. He would never wear it!! So hurt I am! Actually, I feel it is cool and comfortable. Is it really ugly??? What do u folks think about it?? It might be stupid idea to buy this kind of stuff for BOYS, RIGHT? . These things have happened for several times recently. Does that mean he doesn't care about me?

 

[locokrazy]

Ugly no but i can see why someone wouldn't like it.

Does that mean he doesn't care about me?

No I'd Say he just don't like the jacket.

 

[joey_downunder]

You've got different tastes in fashion - that's all.

 

[meep18]

Sorry about you and your boyfriend.
why aren't you a Christian?

 

[Zipi]

I would say go with something like the No fear' brand its quite a good brand and he might like it. Run it past him!

 

[Spiritlight]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, we are all attracted to different things.

In a way people in peoples lives who they care about and value,they bother to teach about themselves.

People who don't matter much to people, most don't tell them anything.

When 2 people come together It is like a new machine. A new machine does not always run smoothly from the beginning. All the parts wear in at first and during that time some things sound rough. Soon it becomes a well worn in smooth running machine.

Your relationship is just like that initially you need to learn each others likes and dislikes. It is better your boyfriend be honest with you so you can learn what he really likes. When you learn this you will be able to surprise him the best.

 

[Lakatide]

Clothes are usually not the best ideas as gifts. I know you meant well and it's a lovely gesture but, in some ways, this is akin to letting your boyfriend buy you shoes - and that's never a good idea! People have different tastes and styles when it comes to fashion.

In the future, I'd suggest going with something that revolves around your boyfriend's interests, such as electronics-related or sports-related (if he's into either of those), etc.

 

[Spiritlight]

Clothes are usually not the best ideas as gifts. I know you meant well and it's a lovely gesture but, in some ways, this is akin to letting your boyfriend buy you shoes - and that's never a good idea! People have different tastes and styles when it comes to fashion.

In the future, I'd suggest going with something that revolves around your boyfriend's interests, such as electronics-related or sports-related (if he's into either of those), etc.

Bf buying girl clothing....Risky.

Buy a size too big you get in trouble because she thinks you think she is fat...Your in trouble.

Buy a size too small.. she begins to think she has put on weight and begins to get a complex...Your in trouble.

Get it right your a champ. She then tells her friends and their Bf has to do it too lol.You could be in trouble.

thats been my experience over the years. Buying clothing has often been a disaster. But it is the thought that counts.

 

[If Not For Grace]

Take it back & let him pick out what he wants--PERSONALLY my hubs is always
trying to surprise me & I hate it. The point of a real gift is to give someone something that pleases them not the giver, when you chose a gift for another
you have to think about what THEY would like, not what you think is cool.

The real problem here is immaturity (yours). You can't accept the fact that just because you like something, he doesn't. Good for him for telling you, maybe a lesson
can be learned. He wants you to be able to please him when you chose to give him a gift, now what's wrong with that?