I have been dating my g-friend for goin on 11 months. We have decided we would like to get married someday. She is living on her own, and i basically spend almost every waking moment with her. My mom, who I love and honor, has issues of me spending all this time with my g-friend... instead of spending time with family. People, I am 25, and I cannot get it in her head, I AM NOT 16 anymore. My g-friend and her do not c eye-to-eye... only because my mom comes accross as criticising/ and nit picking. I see it myself... an so have others. My mom will also nag on me to make my g-friend do something that she does not have to do. I have been standing up to mom, in a respective way. It is starting to make it hard to spend time with my family bc I am fearing she will start the criticism and nit picking to my g-friend. I kno my mom has good intensions, and I have told her to stop. But ever since she first met my g-friend... she has not started a great relationship with my G-friend. I told her she was pushing my g-friend to open up to fast, and she criticises and tries to control, but she just gives me that she is mom, she does not need to change and my g-friend needs to get over this.
Just want to know of any advice, use scripture if possible, and would love older couples to put in there 2 sense. PLz if you are going thru somethin similar, let me kno what you have done.
By the way, my mom is the only one that has a problem with my g-friend, even my dad likes her.
Just want to know of any advice, use scripture if possible, and would love older couples to put in there 2 sense. PLz if you are going thru somethin similar, let me kno what you have done.
By the way, my mom is the only one that has a problem with my g-friend, even my dad likes her.