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You don't have to concede to anyone's position. Especially if it's an extreme one. And their extremism doesn't grant you any leeway to indulge in your own. It's guaranteed that you'll end up in a lose/lose situation. There are reasonable solutions to most problems. Search them out. Look for points of agreement. Point out any fallacies. Correct misinterpretations. Concede when you are wrong. Offer compromises. You doknow that this is how adults are meant to discuss things?
I've already said that this must not be considered a point scoring exercise. The comments in the op were just that. So how do you reply? By turning it into...a point scoring exercise.
In an argument with a family member at the dinner table you don't have to concede at all. When it's a power balance in politics (and concessions are inevitable in order to get the votes to shape policy), you're not left with much of a choice.
Within the context of US politics it is about "points" in a way.
If one team can get 218 points in round one and 51 points in round two, they "win".
With most votes on hot button issues, there's no "winning" without making some concessions because you need a least a few people from the other side to go with your side in order to get anything done.
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