Men... Why are they so hard to read?

[Sketcher]

Okay if you are standing in church talking to someone and a man comes up behind you and turns you around to hug you, wouldn't you take that he likes you.

As far as I know, there are two kinds of men that do that. The players and the women in men's bodies.

I think he is AWESOME!!!! But he goes through girlfriends wayyyyy to fast.

This is a bad sign.

 

[WendyV]

Hmmm, shopping for men like you shop for clothes... what's the return policy like, or is it like shoes and you just keep 30 pairs standing by just incase you need one of them?

And to the OP... stop trying to read them and maybe just confront them about opening up... if they aren't willing to, then kick them to the curb! Just a thought.

Oh no, no return once packaging opened. Only ONE allowed per customer for sure, no need for 30 and besides they need a lot of care and attention so no time for more than one. Just got to make sure you pick the right one before you take him home

 

[jcj3803]

But then again, you should be praying about everything, even the small things like this, so that you're in God's Will. He'll tell you what is best for you, if you should go for it or not. The biggest mistake Christians make is not taking the small things of life to God. Well, also the big things too.

Well put!

 

[BoazB]

I think he is AWESOME!!!! But he goes through girlfriends wayyyyy to fast.

Could it be that he likes hugging (especially females with certain looks and vital statistics) more than he likes you? LOL

 

[RonnyRulz]

In my book women are harder to read than men.

At least the men say up-straight that they're gay and think I'm hot. Women are all way too shy.

 

[Laurie919]

Could it be that he likes hugging (especially females with certain looks and vital statistics) more than he likes you? LOL

This could be the thing.....

 

[Laurie919]

In my book women are harder to read than men.

At least the men say up-straight that they're gay and think I'm hot. Women are all way too shy.

See I am very open and honest. Actually too open and honest. I call my pastor every time I do something major that I should not do.

 

[Luther073082]

As far as I know, there are two kinds of men that do that. The players and the women in men's bodies.

That is quite frankly the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard in my life. If they are friends then it very much makes sense. Its called affection, some of us arn't afraid of it with our friends.

 

[Sketcher]

That is quite frankly the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard in my life. If they are friends then it very much makes sense. Its called affection, some of us arn't afraid of it with our friends.

It's been my observation with the people around here.

 

[CalmInTheStorm]

Oh no, no return once packaging opened. Only ONE allowed per customer for sure, no need for 30 and besides they need a lot of care and attention so no time for more than one. Just got to make sure you pick the right one before you take him home

AH, my mistake, so now you are just required to try on 30 or so to be sure you are taking the right one home got it

 

[Luther073082]

It's been my observation with the people around here.

Strange place, I converted when I was in college. Everyone hugged everyone where I went to school. Yes that does mean we hugged other guys too.

 

[fraggable]

Depends on the region/demographic/culture. Up here in the midwest hugging isn't something you generally do with family and SOs. In the south where my brother is and his wife is from, hugging is like shaking hands and wouldn't be taken seriously.

 

[Luther073082]

Depends on the region/demographic/culture. Up here in the midwest hugging isn't something you generally do with family and SOs. In the south where my brother is and his wife is from, hugging is like shaking hands and wouldn't be taken seriously.

The school I went to was in the midwest. Valparaiso University, Valparaiso IN.

I live right now just outside of South Bend, IN

 

[Laurie919]

Depends on the region/demographic/culture. Up here in the midwest hugging isn't something you generally do with family and SOs. In the south where my brother is and his wife is from, hugging is like shaking hands and wouldn't be taken seriously.

Well I am in the south and we are huggers.

 

[NoHoldingBack]

Well I am in the south and we are huggers.

Same here!

 

[Luther073082]

Maybe it was just the university that I attended. We are huggers at Valpo, but yet at the church I'm at now occasionally you get a hug but it isn't nearly as often. Its only regular with some of my closer friends at the church.

 

[jcj3803]

Well I am in the south and we are huggers.

I thought Southern Ladies were too genteel to hug,

 

[jakeluvspunk]

So the reason why men are so unreadable is because our feelings change so frequently. If you're dating a man that lives in Christ you shouldn't have these problems as much because usually they will be honest with you from the get go!

 

[overit]

FUnny how each culture is different, leaving in ATL, yes they hug here.

Having lived in Argentina, the guy probably would have turned you around for a kiss on the cheek, that's how we greet people there, even those you are being introduce to for the first time, guys even kiss guys, and girls girls, and guys w/girls. We typically don't do the kiss each side, just the one. Granted people there are generally more warm anyway and less paranoid about affection or bodily contact then they are here in the US.

 

[Laurie919]

I thought Southern Ladies were too genteel to hug,

You don't know very many southern ladies, lol.