I keep thinking mean thoughts towards my bf. And not just little quick intrusive thoughts, but I'll be in the bathroom or something and go through this whole scenario in my head where I get mad at him for something totally made up. And sometimes I think of situations that could be the end of the relationship, and this weird feeling of relief comes in??
Some key points:
I want to marry him
I think he's amazing
I'm pretty sure I have OCD, but this feels different
I prayed this morning, that I renounce these thoughts in Jesus' name. But I'm worried that having these thoughts means I don't love him enough, or that I should leave the relationship because I'm not sure i want to be with him forever? I will say I second guess myself A LOT and I obsess over whether or not we're compatible. I had peace about my decision to want to marry him about 6 months ago, but I feel anxious now. And I don't think I have any real reason to.
Also, I've had mean thoughts towards my best friend before; she would get on my nerves and eventually we stopped being friends because she stopped honoring God. And I've had the relief-at-end-of-relationship feeling when I was having conflict with another friend and thought of a scenario where we'd no longer be friends.
So, I guess I'm thinking out loud, but maybe I'm just trying to avoid my uncertainty and internal conflict?
If anyone has any thoughts or just thinks I'm over thinking this, I'd appreciate it.
Some key points:
I want to marry him
I think he's amazing
I'm pretty sure I have OCD, but this feels different
I prayed this morning, that I renounce these thoughts in Jesus' name. But I'm worried that having these thoughts means I don't love him enough, or that I should leave the relationship because I'm not sure i want to be with him forever? I will say I second guess myself A LOT and I obsess over whether or not we're compatible. I had peace about my decision to want to marry him about 6 months ago, but I feel anxious now. And I don't think I have any real reason to.
Also, I've had mean thoughts towards my best friend before; she would get on my nerves and eventually we stopped being friends because she stopped honoring God. And I've had the relief-at-end-of-relationship feeling when I was having conflict with another friend and thought of a scenario where we'd no longer be friends.
So, I guess I'm thinking out loud, but maybe I'm just trying to avoid my uncertainty and internal conflict?
If anyone has any thoughts or just thinks I'm over thinking this, I'd appreciate it.