so last night my older son comes in and says he's going to Flagstaff to pick up his friend (a girl) and they are going to Vegas and getting married! So of course I think he's kidding and I tell him, "no you're not" and he keeps saying it's not a joke and he is! And he is even asking me if I want to go, which is freaking me out. So I start crying! And then he's like why are you crying, but still saying it's not a joke. Well apparently it WAS a joke cuz he never left the house, but after that HE was mad at ME! Like it was MY fault he made ME cry!
and then earlier I was telling my younger son that part of cleaning the bathroom was cleaning the sink, to which he stated that it wasn't HIM that leaves toothpaste in the sink and so I start saying why do you guys think you only have to clean up your own messes? I clean the whole house without complaint and you only want to do your OWN dishes and clean your OWN messes, which you don't even do that! Then he gets mad at me and says "I'm sorry I'm such a bad son!" I told him I never said he was a bad son, that's what he heard geez.
I don't understand them always making it MY fault when they are not doing what THEY should be doing except that it is my parenting that is causing it I guess.