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I stand by what I posted. I'm sure neither of you will disagree with it, or I'd hope not. But condemning masturbation when it is not condemned in the Bible does count as a religious rut.So our God is an angry one that makes us be perfect? Sorry folks, but that's not what the Bible teaches: Get out of the religious ruts of the pharisees and get into a relationship with Jesus.
What does Matthew 5 have to do with fantasy?
Aren't you guys debating the nature of masturbation itself? Whether or not it always requires a specific person to fantasize about? We've been over that ground pages ago in this thread, starting page 5.
The verse in Matthew you're referring to is about looking at a specific woman with the specific intention of committing adultery in one's mind. There were pages of discussion about that earlier with some very good references from the greek, comparing different translations of the Bible.
As always, the word that seems to be tripping things up is "lust", which in the Greek is a completely innocuous word with no evil intentions associated with it. It simply means to want something badly, whether good or bad.
That is not what the Greek means, however, and therefore that verse does not talk about fantasy. Do you know what coveting is?Matthew 5: 27,28
27"You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' 28But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
Looking lustfully, aka fantasy.
Coveting: envy, wanting something that in not yours
If the Greek means coveting, I fail to see how that is any different.
David, your best decision would be to stop arguing with these guys. They believe that lust is only a sin if you are purposing in your mind to commit physical adultery. They don't believe that the lust talked about in Matthew means to guard your mind.
You either disagree with them, and you can leave this thread, or you will be won over to their side. Be wary.
David, your best decision would be to stop arguing with these guys. They believe that lust is only a sin if you are purposing in your mind to commit physical adultery. They don't believe that the lust talked about in Matthew means to guard your mind.