I think you just have to know what brings you to Masonry, why your in it, what it does for you, and respond to the critics accordingly.
I do know why I'm there, and it has nothing to do with anything any critics are saying. I joined because the Holy Spirit led me to do so. The first time the nudge came, I, like many Christians, had come under some of the influence of antimasons. I had just bought Ankerberg's The Secret Teachings of the Masonic Lodge, and when I began reading it, the Holy Spirit was showing me what was wrong with the accusations. Now, I had come to KNOW that voice, but because of the undue influence of antimasons, I took what happened to mean that somehow the book had some sort of demonic influence that was causing me to mistake some other voice for His. Unfortunately, from the time that first incident occurred until the time I began a quest to understand which side of the matter was the truth, was around 10 years, and then 2 more years beyond that before I came to the conclusion that I could reach no conclusion on the matter, and placed it in the Lord's hands and entrusted the decision to HIM.
Fact is, spiritual discernment shows up on every gifts inventory I ever took, as the strongest of the spiritual gifts the Lord has seen fit to bestow. It wasn't until after I had spent several years running from a call to the ministry, and the Lord Jesus Christ's miraculous rescue from the drug-addicted hell I ran to, that God began bringing experiences into my life to exercise that gift, teaching me more than anything else, not how to exercise it, but teaching me that I can trust the gift.
That's why I get frustrated with the whole antimasonic smokescreen generated around accusations regarding Pike, Hall, the Blavatskys, Golden Dawn, and all the other stuff that gets passed off as "what Masonry is about." When I see what is taught in lodge, and what is found in our manual, I see none of the nonsense that makes for so much antimasonic cannon fodder. The problem with most of the critics, I believe, is that they falsely try to make of Freemasonry another religion, and then criticize it on that basis.
It has been said that at the Union of 1813 that re-consolidated the "Moderns" and the "Antients," that a conscious effort was made to remove all Christian references from Masonry. All I can say at this point, 200 years later, is: they failed miserably. In fact, I go further to state, that the claims bandied about in certain Masonic circles, about a move that took place post-1717 of "Christianizing Masonry," is imaginary and illusory, and a supposed phenomenon that many Masons truly believe as something that really happened. It was really quite the opposite, the Christian bearing had always been there. Masonry did arise, after all, in a country that was so predominantly Christian it could be referred to as exclusively so. The only real questions about one's religion were, would you be Catholic or Protestant? (The answer to that question changed about as often as they changed rulers. But I digress.) No, the real phenomenon that took place was the (attempted) DE-Christianizing of Masonry.
I do not have it on hand, but shall have it in a couple of days, a work which, I hope, shall clarify things in regard to Masonry's pre-1717 content, a resource work done primarily on the Scottish Lodges, as I recall. I already have an idea what I will find, I just need to see it first-hand to see what puzzle pieces fall into place for that period.
Well, I wasn't intending to post a dissertation on the matter, but felt like your honest question about what turns my rudder, deserved a fair reply. What I see in Freemasonry that compels me to say it is not incompatible with my Christian faith, derives from its actual content, particularly in ritual and lectures--which is why I sometimes get the knickers in a twist when uninformed assertions come at the craft from obtuse directions, and founded on things that get credited as "authoritative Masonic sources," when actually it's some "secret teachings" blather that came from Manly Palmer Hall 30 years before he ever experienced his first ritual, or from someone's misapprehensions of Pike, who ought not to be read by anyone unskilled in reading extensively lengthy English sentence constructions, and multi-page, multi-level, skillfully constructed rhetorical arguments.
Sorry, that stuff is not Freemasonry, that's the accusational framework of imaginary Freemasonry created by the hyper-paranoid, conspiratorial mindset of what used to be the antimasonic fringe, which has now permeated the whole of the antimasonic camp to become its ever-increasing norm.
Like I said, if you have something specific that comes from Freemasonry itself, and not from the likes of the esoteric fringes of it, that you wish to present and let's deal with it, by all means, pull it out. But I doubt I'll engage very far with you in addressing the kinds of things you seem to be interested in, because it really appears you have bought into the antimasonic idea of what constitutes Masonry, and that's unfortunate.
Nor will I engage with you, even should I choose to bite the bullet and go ahead and discuss such issues, as long as you continue in generalities and never get around to anything that anyone can really stick a fork into and take a big enough bite to make a genuine response. I mean, as long as you continue simply mentioning the names or general aspects of things that might have said or done by the people you mention, but never manage to pull out and post anything specific from any specific work they wrote, or any specific thing they themselves actually said or presented, there's no point in trying to discuss any of them.
Believe me, that's not being uncooperative or unwilling. That's just making an honest assessment of what any attempt to discuss such generalities might actually manage to produce, and deciding, "Ain't nobody got time for that."