Catholics take veneration of her too far with Rosary beeds,
Do you think asking for people to pray for you is a violation of Christianity? Do you pray for other people? Is the
Bible somehow a violation of Christianity?
Here's the Ave Maria:
"Hail Mary! Full of Grace, the Lord is with you. Blessed are you among women, and Blessed is the Fruit of your womb, Jesus.
"Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now at the hour of our death. Amen"
The first part is ripped
right out of the Holy Canon!!
The second part is nothing more than a petition for her to pray for us.
See the "second part" above.
In
doulia, not
latria. They are not the same thing.
believing they have a spiritual relationship with her,
We all do.
If in Baptism we become sons of God the Father, that makes us spiritual brothers and sisters of Jesus. And since St. Mary the Theotokos is the Mother of Jesus, then she is our spiritual Mother as well.
Its all purely logical.
that they reach God/Jesus through her,
Same "second part" as above.
and that she offers them gifts,
By her "yes" she gave us the Gift of Salvation.
Yes she was.
she was like an arc of the covenant,
Within the Arc of the Covenant is the Covenant. Jesus is our New Covenant; it is sealed in His Blood. He is our Living Covenant; our Living Torah. From where did He spring? As the Incarnation of the Divine Son in the Trinity, He was born from an Arc who bore Him. That Holy Arc is St. Mary the Theotokos.
that she is the Queen of Heaven.
In Hebrew government, the mother of the king is the queen. If Jesus is the King, then St. Mary the Theotokos is the Queen.
Aren't we taught that all honor and glory is reserved for Jesus and that all have sinned except the Holy One of God?
All glory and honor due to Him alone is His.
Latria can only be given to Him.
Doulia (and
hyperdoulia in the case of the BVM) can be given to the Angels and the Saints.