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White Rabbit

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Fly04~J~ said:
Which one do you prefer? Marry with a person that is older than you or younger than you or same age???:scratch:

Wow it's kinda hard to find someone that was born the exact millisecond as you... so it's more practical to marry either younger or older... but I'm leaning towards monasticism myself so I guess none of the above ^_^
 
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White Rabbit said:
Wow it's kinda hard to find someone that was born the exact millisecond as you... so it's more practical to marry either younger or older... but I'm leaning towards monasticism myself so I guess none of the above ^_^
What do you exactly mean??:scratch: :confused:
 
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stray bullet said:
Age doesn't matter.

Just so long as they are good looking and rich.
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Don't you think that would be a little unfair?? How would you feel if God do like what you said and He only choose to love those who is rich and good looking??
 
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Fly said:
Don't you think that would be a little unfair?? How would you feel if God do like what you said and He only choose to love those who is rich and good looking??



Fly...he's joking. :) Nod wisely at the first sentence, laugh at the second. ;)

I think generally women prefer men older than they are, and men prefer women to be younger...which works out well for everyone, doesn't it? :angel: I think it probably has to do with the fact that females mature at a much faster pace than males, so generally speaking a 20 year old male is not as mature as a 20 year old female.
 
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ZooMom said:
Fly...he's joking. :) Nod wisely at the first sentence, laugh at the second. ;)

I think generally women prefer men older than they are, and men prefer women to be younger...which works out well for everyone, doesn't it? :angel: I think it probably has to do with the fact that females mature at a much faster pace than males, so generally speaking a 20 year old male is not as mature as a 20 year old female.
Yea..I know that he's joking... welp, to whom we get marry is an interesting part.. I don't know...
 
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I also think that the older you are when you get married makes a big difference in that generality. I would say that a 20 year old woman will almost always marry a man older than herself, while a 30+ year old woman will likely marry closer to her own age. Again, I think it has alot to do with maturity levels, and of course, does not hold absolutely true for everyone.

For myself, my husband is five years older than me. At 33 and 38 it's not such a great difference in any aspect, but when we met I was 16 to his 21. A very great difference age-wise, but not maturity-wise. We were about even. ;)
 
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