where you married before you got pregnant? I was reading the teens forums and they had a thread for teen mommies, I thought I'd post this question here for the adult ladies to answer.
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Married before Pregnancy?
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I had 1 baby pre-marriage... did not marry that person
then with my daughter- we were married for 2 months before we conceived, now we're having our 2nd
then with my daughter- we were married for 2 months before we conceived, now we're having our 2nd
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I had 3 babies before I was married (sort of)... I had one I gave up for adoption. I got pregnant again- but then married the father in a shotgun wedding when I was about 5 months- then we decided to give the baby up for adoption.
Then we got divorced and I got pregnant again--with our oldest son. We got married when he was two years old....I wanted to be SURE that my husband wanted to be married in the Church. Although while I was pregnant and up until the wedding we stopped having sex together.
I got pregnant with my next child about 3 months after we were married...
Then we got divorced and I got pregnant again--with our oldest son. We got married when he was two years old....I wanted to be SURE that my husband wanted to be married in the Church. Although while I was pregnant and up until the wedding we stopped having sex together.
I got pregnant with my next child about 3 months after we were married...
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I was married for 8 months before I got pregnant the first time. I could have gotten pregnant before marriage if I hadn't been on the pill.
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JulySheMustFly
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We were married for almost a year before I became pregnant with our oldest. Although hardly anyone from his old church believed that.
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I was married a year and 9 nine months before getting pregnant. We really wanted that newlywed time without thinking about a baby coming.
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I guess I am the odd "man" out... we were married for almost 4 years before we got pregnate with Robert... we wanted to have time to adjust to being married before trying for a baby... that and we were living with his mom (long story, she was in her late 80's early 90's) I was on the pill from just about a couple months after we started dating till 2 to 5 months before I got pregnate with Robert. I found my birth mother about a month before I got pregnate with Robert, main reason was for family medical back ground... since both Ken and I were adopted...
I was blessed enough not to get pregnate before we got married though it could have happened both with Ken , and there was another guy right out of high school...
I was blessed enough not to get pregnate before we got married though it could have happened both with Ken , and there was another guy right out of high school...
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My husband and I have been married three years, and now we are pregnant! It was really nice to spend the time getting to adjust to each other, plus in the meantime we raised a horribly spoiled dog who is going to get a really rude awakening. He is our 'first' child, so in a way this feels like our second...
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Well ours was a surprise, we were going to wait until we had been married two years to start trying, but God had other plans for us.
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Well said and the same goes for me. Not married and split up with the father shortly after finding out I was pregnant.
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I got pregnant with my first and decided to NOT marry the father. I figured "2 wrongs do not make a right", and I decided to wait until my hormones weren't making me nutso anymore to make any life-alterning decisions. (I was backslidden at this time, but getting pregnant was a Huge wake-up call).
When my oldest DD was 7.5 months old, the L-rd showed me that I was not doing her any favors by refusing to let her have a daddy... so I contacted her father, he paid for us to come out and visit, and once I got here I knew we'd end up getting married. The L-rd confirmed it to me that my baby's father would ask me to marry him, and made it clear that I was to say yes.
When he did, I said yes, and G-d has worked out everything else. Wild ride... but worth it.
When my oldest DD was 7.5 months old, the L-rd showed me that I was not doing her any favors by refusing to let her have a daddy... so I contacted her father, he paid for us to come out and visit, and once I got here I knew we'd end up getting married. The L-rd confirmed it to me that my baby's father would ask me to marry him, and made it clear that I was to say yes.
When he did, I said yes, and G-d has worked out everything else. Wild ride... but worth it.
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