• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

Manly man, and girly girl..

MehGuy

A member of the less neotenous sex..
Site Supporter
Jul 23, 2007
56,272
11,028
Minnesota
✟1,358,950.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Atheist
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Others
I don't have a sense of smell, so I never had the urge to smell good or know what it's like to small bad, lol.

I do like emotions, and talking about them. Although I hate hugs and stuff, and have a low threshold for love, lol.
 
Upvote 0

Messy

Well-Known Member
Jan 30, 2011
10,027
2,082
Holland
✟21,082.00
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
I like to smell good. I guess thats not a very manly man thing to do.

I dont care though, just cause Im a man don't mean I have to smell like a donkeys butt.
No that's not manly.
I smell like a donkeys butt.
 
Upvote 0

Messy

Well-Known Member
Jan 30, 2011
10,027
2,082
Holland
✟21,082.00
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
Are there any gender roles/traits you do that are the opposite of your gender?
Seriously I'm more like a tomboy unless I'm with someone, because guys don't like that. But when I'm single I don't care about make up perfume and all that nonsense. I hop out of my bed and I'm ready in 5 minutes in the morning. Always wear denim and some clothes someone gave me. I leave the mess the mess. I hate cooking.
 
Upvote 0

Toro

Oh, Hello!
Jan 27, 2012
24,221
12,451
You don't get to stalk me. :|
✟354,351.00
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
No that's not manly.
I smell like a donkeys butt.

Well then I guess I will have to spray you with one of my many colognes then if you are ever near me.

Ill probably spray you with Curve Crush as that is the least manly scent I have. I don't even wear it.

It was a lesson to not buy cheap scents blindly just cause their reviews are good.

I gotta warn you though. You will smell like a Thai transvestite with the stuff. (Which is why the bottle is dusty and never used.) But hey, better than smelling like the butt of a donkey I guess. :p
 
Upvote 0

Gnarwhal

☩ Broman Catholic ☩
Oct 31, 2008
20,859
12,589
38
Northern California
✟496,210.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Republican
I like and appreciate fine things, like a nicely tailored suit, a good single malt scotch, meaningful literature, poetry, fine dining, black (or white) tie events, etc. When I was married my ex-wife and I got facials on a cruise we were on, I'm not going to lie... it was sublime.

In spite of all that, nobody has ever questioned my manhood. There must be a lady out there who kisses and tells...
 
Upvote 0

Toro

Oh, Hello!
Jan 27, 2012
24,221
12,451
You don't get to stalk me. :|
✟354,351.00
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
I'm incredibly right-brained. I like colors and emotion and I'm very passionate. Those traits are usually reserved for woman lol.


Hey, Im a romantic but I dont consider that feminine. Those guys that do are just jealous cause the ladies love me cause I "get it". I know romance loses its meaning if its only done because the lady complains there isnt any romance.

I also don't save flowers for when I mess up. I give flowers on any random day just to make the lady smile.

Its why I loathe Valentines day, its a sham. If you have to have a day on the calendar to make your woman feel appreciated....... you fail. Of course, I still give in to V-day cause Im not gonna let my lady be the only one not getting stuff.
 
Upvote 0

Saucy

Well-Known Member
Site Supporter
Jul 5, 2005
46,775
19,959
Michigan
✟895,820.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Non-Denom
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Republican
Seriously I'm more like a tomboy unless I'm with someone, because guys don't like that. But when I'm single I don't care about make up perfume and all that nonsense. I hop out of my bed and I'm ready in 5 minutes in the morning. Always wear denim and some clothes someone gave me. I leave the mess the mess. I hate cooking.
Actually, being the way I am, I find myself more attracted to the tomboy, independent types. I don't care about the woman wearing make-up and being a girly-girl unless that's what she wants. But I'm fine if she never touches the stuff lol. If she's not afraid to get dirty, I'll swoon haha :D
 
  • Like
Reactions: Messy
Upvote 0

Messy

Well-Known Member
Jan 30, 2011
10,027
2,082
Holland
✟21,082.00
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
Well then I guess I will have to spray you with one of my many colognes then if you are ever near me.

Ill probably spray you with Curve Crush as that is the least manly scent I have. I don't even wear it.

It was a lesson to not buy cheap scents blindly just cause their reviews are good.

I gotta warn you though. You will smell like a Thai transvestite with the stuff. (Which is why the bottle is dusty and never used.) But hey, better than smelling like the butt of a donkey I guess. :p
Hahahahahahaha that reminds me. When I lived in a students home one guy always came over to eat and I liked him. But I was always so lazy. I had a shirt I really liked but you had to wash that separately which was way too much effort and I wanted to look nice for him, but I had no perfume and I just had to wear that thing, so I used that stuff you have in the toilet, a whole lot I sprayed on it. Then he came in and he said: ooooh you smell so lovely.
Hahahahahahaha
 
Upvote 0

Miss Spaulding

Virtus semper viridis
Jan 6, 2005
21,929
7,168
The Tropics
✟125,733.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
I loathe Valentine's Day. Not that all man necessarily hate V-Day, but I believe most men at least don't put nearly as much stock into that day as women do. ...Seriously...that day is so dumb. Even as a kid I thought it was stupid.

That's really the only big thing that comes to mind. Besides that, I am very tomboy-ish, which I've always been, and I wear very little makeup and generally couldn't care less about any makeup/perfume products at all. I don't fuss over babies, I rarely get pedicures, I only shop for clothes when I actually 'need' new stuff (although I buy finer things when I do shop - hehehe), and I have...like...8 pairs of shoes. How many women only have 8 pairs of shoes? Lol.

I also loathe crafts and sewing. I can't even sew a stupid button back on, so when that happens I pull a "Hey, Mom. Can you fix this for me?"
 
Upvote 0

Toro

Oh, Hello!
Jan 27, 2012
24,221
12,451
You don't get to stalk me. :|
✟354,351.00
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
There must be a lady out there who kisses and tells...

Yes, they exist and probably more so then men.

I know this because I have gotten dates just off word of mouth from women circles that knew a woman I had dated.

Kind of odd to hear your "legend" from the mouths of others.
 
Upvote 0

Toro

Oh, Hello!
Jan 27, 2012
24,221
12,451
You don't get to stalk me. :|
✟354,351.00
Gender
Male
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
Hahahahahahaha that reminds me. When I lived in a students home one guy always came over to eat and I liked him. But I was always so lazy. I had a shirt I really liked but you had to wash that separately which was way too much effort and I wanted to look nice for him, but I had no perfume and I just had to wear that thing, so I used that stuff you have in the toilet, a whole lot I sprayed on it. Then he came in and he said: ooooh you smell so lovely.Hahahahahahaha

LOL Well, some of us men don't care what a woman is wearing as long as she smells good (I happen to be one of those.) A woman can walk around in nothing but sweats for all I care as long as her hygiene is up to par.... I couldn't care less.

I loathe Valentine's Day. Not that all man necessarily hate V-Day, but I believe most men at least don't put nearly as much stock into that day as women do. ...Seriously...that day is so dumb. Even as a kid I thought it was stupid.

That's really the only big thing that comes to mind. Besides that, I am very tomboy-ish, which I've always been, and I wear very little makeup and generally couldn't care less about any makeup/perfume products at all. I don't fuss over babies, I rarely get pedicures, I only shop for clothes when I actually 'need' new stuff (although I buy finer things when I do shop - hehehe), and I have...like...8 pairs of shoes. How many women only have 8 pairs of shoes? Lol.

I also loathe crafts and sewing. I can't even sew a stupid button back on, so when that happens I pull a "Hey, Mom. Can you fix this for me?"

I put stock in making my lady feel beautiful and appreciated, so the core of V-day and what it SHOULD be I agree with. What the day actually is however, I loathe.

The day itself is the generic flowers, candy blah blah blah. Thats not romance, its a lazy generic form of a little girls version of romance.

True romance is knowing a woman's interest and planning off that. If the woman likes bugs. Taking her to search for bugs is not on the surface romantic. However, doing something she loves and sharing that IS, no matter what it is. That sentiment is lost in the commercialized garbage that runs and has become V-day.
 
Upvote 0

Messy

Well-Known Member
Jan 30, 2011
10,027
2,082
Holland
✟21,082.00
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
and I have...like...8 pairs of shoes. How many women only have 8 pairs of shoes? Lol.
8 pairs?
I have one for the summer and boots for the winter, but now I think I have two extra somewhere. My parents always buy that. Really girls from the office gave me clothes that didn't fit anymore because they thought I was so poor. I just don't care.
Tsss when I was married I had high heels, skirts and jackets and all those things, lipstick, puffed up hair.
My boots are always full with mud when we played outside.
 
  • Like
Reactions: MiniEmu
Upvote 0