Matthew 5:27-28
You have heard that it was said, You shall not commit adultery; but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart..
Ok so right off the bat. LUST is = to adultery.
Well, WHAT IS LUST?
What does lust mean? TO desire, Covet, Earnestly WANT.
Was Jesus saying:
"If you want to HAVE a woman you see (not even sexually, but to WANT her, covet...even desire to have a SPECIFIC woman as your wife) you commit adultery?
Yes, yes he was.
he was NOT talking about seeing a woman and in that moment wanting to have sex with her...To do that would be spiritual RAPE...not lust(which is spiritual adultery). JESUS was saying:
If you see a lady(or vise versa), and GOD did not say, TO YOU PERSONALLY, she was YOUR WIFE..then to WANT her AS your wife would be committing adultery. NOT EVEN to have sex in your mind but only to WANT. For she belongs to another(whether she knows yet or its a way into the future, GOD planned for her to marry SOMEONE and its not you...) if you WANT..thats LUSt. if you LUST you committed adultery. NOTHING about Sex yet in this passage. Just WANT
Thats it.
Thats ALL lust means to WANT. Not even SEXUALLY, even if you just keep it "moral"
Where do you hear THIS taught? No where. But this is truth.
Not that we CANT desire what GOD gives us.
For he said ASK and you WILL receive
(and if you are following him HE WILL LET YOU KNOW)
Instead SEEK YE THE KINGDOM an let GOD bring the one HE wants you to have TO YOU and HE will tell you directly.
Stop lusting(wanting/covetousness) AGAIN doesn't technically HAVE to be YOU envisioning having detailed sex with her....
Lust just means to want.
Now if GOD brings it about and gives you confirmation then GREAT
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But if not..then its adultery. EVEN IF there is no sex in your mind but a strong desire to MARRY her. Even if you do it "morally" its still lust.
for LUST means want. WILL you wait till GODS TIME?
"For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world." 1 John 2:16
Lust of the Flesh = To feel, taste, smell, think, hear and DESIRE(/Want/Covet)
Lust of the eyes = to SEE and DESIRE(/Want/Covet)
Boastful pride of life. = Accomplishments that the WORLD would value. Achievements. things YOU can do that give you boasting rights.
You can LUST after(want) things, people, positions, places, feelings. the only thing you should SET your HEART on is MORE JESUS.
Then HE will do the rest. its faith in HIM. and whats not faith is SIN.
To summ up again: JESUS said if you WANT (not even sex) a woman and she isn't YOUR WIFE (that is you HEARD God say she is yours) then WANTING is adultery.
JESUS looks after his sheep. we are NEVER in WANT.