Luke 9:23 NASB
23 And He was saying to them all, “If anyone wants to come after Me, he must deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow Me.
..deny himself.. take up his cross.. daily..
What does it mean: 'deny himself', and 'take up his cross'...
Also, this must be done daily, if we are to be a followers of jesus. This sounds like more than a one-time shift in belief.. it sounds like something I must struggle with daily.
What is really being asked of the Christian follower here?
Yes, following Jesus isn't a once-and-done affair; it is a lifelong struggle--to take up our cross and follow. So that is a daily, continual walk of discipleship.
It means we don't prioritize our selfish appetites, we commit ourselves to the Way of Jesus; we deny our appetites our selfish impulses, we do things Jesus' way. It's a call to metanoia, usually translated as repentance; quite literally metanoia means a change of mind, a reorientation of how we think, and also how we act. In one sense it's course-correction, in another sense its a continual transformation of our mind, "Do not be conformed to the pattern of this world, but be renewed by the transformation of your mind", "Have this same mind in you that was in Christ Jesus". It's about confessing our sin, it's about abiding in faith, it's about obedience to God's commandments, it's about loving our neighbor, it's about making God's kingdom first priority--God's kingdom being the operative model for how we make value judgments, look at others, and live in the world. It's about recognizing that following Jesus is not easy, it's a cross that we have to carry; it's a narrow road not a broad one. It is hard, difficult, and it can mean that other people will hate us, it can mean that we might have to quite literally suffer for it, it means living the tough life of loving, doing, believing even when the world screams the opposite at us.
Pastor Dietrich Bonhoeffer, I think, puts it best in his statement: "
When Christ calls a man, He bids him come and die."