Love Languages

[white dove]

*I love personality stuff, so I never get bored of it.

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Here's mine:

Your Scores
7 Words of Affirmation
8 Quality Time
2 Receiving Gifts
4 Acts of Service
9 Physical Touch

Almost evenly spread out between physical touch, words and quality time. Sounds about right. I can't remember how I'd scored years back, but it's always interesting to do these little quizzes. Just for fartsies.

You know what's kind of strange is that I don't remember many of the questions being too different from each other. Like, for physical touch, I just remember there being a lot of questions pertaining to when others touch us or how we feel when we're touched, but never really how we touch others and how that correlates to our feelings for them. Maybe I'm wrong though. Maybe they figured it wouldn't even matter because if someone's touching us, clearly we're touching them too. But, wouldn't it say something if the person prefers to initiate?

 

[Qyöt27]

4 Words of Affirmation
11 Quality Time
5 Receiving Gifts
1 Acts of Service
9 Physical Touch

 

[Thunder Peel]

I have no idea if these are good scores or not. I've never really paid much attention to these kinds of things.

6 Words of Affirmation
12 Quality Time
1 Receiving Gifts
6 Acts of Service
5 Physical Touch

 

[Wren]

I have no idea if these are good scores or not. I've never really paid much attention to these kinds of things.

6 Words of Affirmation
12 Quality Time
1 Receiving Gifts
6 Acts of Service
5 Physical Touch

There are no good or bad scores/answers. It's just the different ways we prefer to receive love. I'm a fan of the love languages idea because I think it helps to know what people receive as loving or not. My sister is high on Words of Affirmation and loves compliments, so I try to compliment her regularly. I'm low on Words of Affirmation and compliments often make me uncomfortable, so my sister knows to not compliment me too much.

 

[Gym]

7Words of Affirmation9Quality Time3Receiving Gifts10Acts of Service1Physical Touch7Words of Affirmation9Quality Time3Receiving Gifts10Acts of Service1Physical Touch

 

[toastface_grillah]

Survey says:

11 Quality Time
8 Words of Affirmation
8 Physical Touch
3 Acts of Service
0 Receiving Gifts

I don't have much room at home for stuff, and gifts, but it means much more to me if someone takes time out of their schedule to hang for a couple hours. And if we hug at the end, it may as well be seventh heaven.

 

[Blank123]

I already knew that quality time was my primary love language before I even took the test. but here are my results anyhoo...

10 Quality Time
7 Acts of Service
6 Physical Touch
4 Words of Affirmation
3 Receiving Gifts

 

[GQ Chris]

Can't take that test. I don't need anymore spam in my inbox. lol

 

[Inkachu]

Physical touch and quality time. Nothing makes me feel more loved and wanted than someone who's attached to me.. literally

 

[Inkachu]

The guys are almost always "words of affirmation". It's that whole EGO thing, I guess

 

[Qyöt27]

Can't take that test. I don't need anymore spam in my inbox. lol

It has an option to skip that step. I never entered an email address.

 

[GQ Chris]

Your Scores

2 Words of Affirmation 8 Quality Time 2 Receiving Gifts 7 Acts of Service 11 Physical Touch

 

[MacFall]

This isn't going to go well. I'm on the first question and it's already a choice between two things that make me very uncomfortable.

 

[MacFall]

10 - Acts of service
9 - Quality time
4 - Physical touch
4 - Words of affirmation
3 - Receiving gifts

About what I expected.

Although, I realized something about physical touch while taking the test. It makes me extremely uncomfortable, but the lack of it also makes me depressed. I'm one messed up dude.

 

[Blank123]

10 - Acts of service
9 - Quality time
4 - Physical touch
4 - Words of affirmation
3 - Receiving gifts

About what I expected.

Although, I realized something about physical touch while taking the test. It makes me extremely uncomfortable, but the lack of it also makes me depressed. I'm one messed up dude.

not really. everyone needs some level of physical touch in their lives, even if its not high up on their love langauges.

 

[MacFall]

Yeah, but I actually cringe at the idea of it. Not at the idea of me touching other people, but of them touching me. Unfortunately you can't have one without the other.

 

[Qyöt27]

Although, I realized something about physical touch while taking the test. It makes me extremely uncomfortable, but the lack of it also makes me depressed. I'm one messed up dude.

Well, I noticed that in my case, the things I scored or weighed highest on were things I felt deprived of (except Quality Time, as that's more a matter of initiative for both parties), or which there are other aspects of personality which make it hard to attain. The hedgehog's dilemma, basically.

Then of course there's also the distinction between invited and uninvited touch (and by that I don't mean sexual harassment).

 

[MacFall]

There's such a thing as invited touch? I can't imagine ever asking to touch or be touched by someone. At least since the few times I've done so have yielded a response along the lines of "ew, no!"

I figured that physical affection was sort of spontaneous.

 

[Stravinsk]

Heh...I felt like the same few questions were asked multiple times. Anyway, here are my results:

8 Words of Affirmation
10 Quality Time
0 Receiving Gifts
4 Acts of Service
8 Physical Touch

So, I guess the ladies can conclude that I don't give a stuff about gifts, they need to spend lots of time with me, give me plenty of affirmation and touch me alot with the occassional act of service. Another peice of solving the Stravinsk puzzle and winning my heart. lol.

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[RayofSun]

I love all these quizzes that are popping up. Ahh the fun and time that have gone into these

Anyway, this what I got:

9 Words of Affirmation
10 Quality Time
1 Receiving Gifts
3 Acts of Service
7 Physical Touch