Love Languages

[Wren]

If you're not tired of personality quizzes already*, I'm a fan of the Love Languages books by Gary Chapman. On his site he has a quiz to see what your love language is, and one version seems to be tailored to singles. The 5 Love Languages | Five Love Languages Please take the quiz and vote in the poll to show your primary love language and it's a multiple choice poll.


My primary love language is Physical Touch (11) and my next two are tied: Quality Time and Acts of Service (5).



*I love personality stuff, so I never get bored of it.

 

[Rose of Eden]

That was a good quiz, Shelly! I liked that one a lot better than other quizzes I've seen about love languages. I was never really sure which one was my primary love language, but my results of that quiz seemed like a good fit so I think I have a good idea now.

My primary love language is Words Of Affirmation, followed closely by a tie between Quality Time and Gifts.

 

[Lord Herdsetk]

4 Words of Affirmation
10 Quality Time
2 Receiving Gifts
4 Acts of Service
10 Physical Touch

Ironic as I'm a loner who hates being touched. I guess I'm just selective on how I communicate those 'love languages'.

 

[crishmael]

5 Words of Affirmation
12 Quality Time
3 Receiving Gifts
4 Acts of Service
6 Physical Touch
I am a needy consumer of time who likes to be touched occasionally. I put it that way I sound like a stalkerish weirdo.

 

[Wren]

I am a needy consumer of time who likes to be touched occasionally. I put it that way I sound like a stalkerish weirdo.

 

[Blueforest]

Touch (12).

Second highest is a tie between Affirmation and Quality Time (both at 6).

I'd much rather have a kiss or hold hands than have a compliment or just spending time talking even.

 

[Palermo]

i choose physichal touch.

a warm-hearted hug is the best way to show love

 

[Miss Spaulding]

It's been a long time since I did a Love Language quiz, but the last time I did I believe I got Words of Affirmation, which would be pretty accurate.

 

[Scottish Knight]

For fun, I did the quiz and apparently mine is words of affirmation

 

[Sapphyre]

I like this test! Much better than others I've seen.

I got:
Acts of Service (10)
Words of Affirmation (7)
Quality Time (7)
Physical Touch (5)
Gifts (1)

I'm definitely an "actions speak louder than words" person.

 

[crishmael]

I was at least relieved that my love language wasn't Klingon.

 

[Verve]

8 Words of Affirmation
5 Quality Time
6 Receiving Gifts
10 Acts of Service
1 Physical Touch

Wow, that could really be interpreted poorly. LOL
I guess that's because the quiz isn't really in depth.

 

[barefeetonholyground]

Physical Touch. Wonderful thing in a marriage, dangerous thing when you're dating. :o

 

[Beccafly]

I got (11) for quality time and (9) for words of affirmation. I had a feeling the two would be close.

 

[Niels]

From highest to lowest:

- Quality Time
- Words of Affirmation
- Physical Touch
- Acts of Service
- Receiving Gifts

 

[MehTeh]

What I got was
[FONT=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]9 Words of Affirmation
6 Quality Time
3 Receiving Gifts
2 Acts of Service
10 Physical Touch

But I tend to do more Acts of Service towards others.

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[Amber.ly]

Gifts. By a big margin. Next up would be quality time.

Although it isn't correct that the option was called "receiving gifts" as the Love Languages are not only how you FEEL love but how you SHOW love in return.

My room is filled with mementos people have given me over the years. I kept the keyring my mom bought me when I got my drivers license at 16. I have a sticker one of my brother's bought for me when I was 13, I keep the vases anytime I receive flowers and fill them with painted rocks or something.

In reverse, I'm known in my family as the one who pays for everything or gives things. It trips me up sometimes because it took me forever to realize that not everyone sees that as an act of love, a few family members would rather have a note or me actually say "I love you" when I think I already said it with the present I sent them. It can be frustrating to feel you are shouting out how much you care and yet because they don't operate that way, it doesn't mean as much to them.

 

[anewday]

7Words of Affirmation10Quality Time1Receiving Gifts4Acts of Service8Physical Touch7Words of Affirmation10Quality Time1Receiving Gifts4Acts of Service8Physical Touch7Words of Affirmation10Quality Time1Receiving Gifts4Acts of Service8Physical Touch7Words of Affirmation10Quality Time1Receiving Gifts4Acts of Service8Physical TouchQuality time was my highest.

 

[hana14]

I got (11) for quality time and (9) for words of affirmation. I had a feeling the two would be close.

Same here!

 

[anewday]

My highest was quality time (10) .