Intellect tends to bring looks.
As I learned here, beauty (or handsomeness) is not just appearance, but relates to body language, attitude, ones "spirituality" etc.
Is personal aesthetics gendered, and therefore learned?
I think its odd that we know this, and yert the "civilised world" is selling us fashion as an apparent means to become attractive. The higher the price too, the more attractive youll be - apparently.
In Islam the ranks of the pious are determined in part by good clothing too, in part! You gotta try to look (and smell) good if possible.
Its something you have to "buy into" and "work for", to achieve status you not only have to "look good".
The middle agedand adult, well us its gender constructs of "man cars", "man pies" , "man dancing" and and "radio voices" etc. Ok its fun, Ill accept that. But is fun the telos of man?
"Know that this world's life is only sport and play and gaiety and boasting among yourselves and a vying in the multiplication of wealth and children. " Koran 57:20
This is the Muslim advice:
"And be moderate (or show no insolence, be smooth, easy, frugal, thrifty) in your walking, and lower your voice. Verily, the harshest of all voices is the voice (braying) of the ass."
Ok, clothing matters, cars are hepful, but if the true beauty or handsomeness within ones inner nature, is not nurtured, then what good are lovely clothes on a
poverty stricken soul.
Is that a function of personal lack of wit? An all must learn to stand alone mentality.
"Nothing can soften the hardness of the heart like the remembrance of Allah. Zikr is healing and medicine for the heart. " - Hasan Basri
"Honour a physician with the honour due unto him for the uses which ye may have of him: for the Lord hath created him. 2For of the most High cometh healing, and he shall receive honour of the king. 3The skill of the physician shall lift up his head: and in the sight of great men he shall be in admiration." Ecclasiasticus 38:1
"It is He who sent down Sakeena (tranquility) into the hearts of the believers that they may add Faith to their Faith; for to Allah belong the forces of the heavens and the earth; and Allah is full of Knowledge and Wisdom." Koran 48:4