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I am lonely most of the time, sometimes, the lonely feeling just become so obvious making me feeling breathless.

I would go crazily online here and there to look for attention (=communication) (or whatever) and, go on and on, cannot stop, and addicted. And very unhappy. And feeling like in circle and falling deeper and deeper.

Deep inside me, I hunger for communication (= attention).

I tried to find things outside of computer to do. I read, and that's all. I sometimes don't have the mood to read too. And then I would feel so empty.
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And regarding internet, I feel it's just so-temp to ease the loneliness ( + most of the time not working and feeling worse)

I don't use facebook, I feel facebook making people communicate less or more walls between friends.

I email or phone or better in person communicate with people.

But still I can't help *** because I am too lonely. But I just don't use facebook.
 
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sweetie i am so sorry you are going though all of this.. I use to feel like this sometims i just push myself and pray about it!! and it gets better
ill be praying for you Hun <3

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Pray about it ? what's the content ? like tell God: "God, I feel very lonely, please help me" ?? like this?
 
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push myself &#65311;&#65311;&#65311;

Pray about it ? what's the content ? like tell God: "God, I feel very lonely, please help me" ?? like this?

yeah he will help you
Pushing yourself forward meaning Standing up no matter what and just getting though it no matter what
I know it is Really tough because you just feel alone more then ever and it is always good to talk to someone about it
God Will help you though it if you just give it all to him he will help you!! He loves you so much he will do anything
 
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I keep Facebook but the status updates from people from High School are very depressing to me. :( It makes me feel worse.

I sometimes feel as if I'm constantly searching for people online to talk to. And sometimes when I do want to talk to someone when I'm not feeling alright, all I get are trite responses, and I feel like they're going "blah blah blah" in their heads. I mean, I want communication but what do I get out of it sometimes? :( It sucks.
 
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Also, do you have a Celebrate Recovery in your area? It's an amazing program that God has given us as a resource to alleviate loneliness, depression, etc and to bring us closer to Himself through others going through similar struggles.
 
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Praying for you, sweetie
There's some good advice here - and please join our skype chat, it would be good to talk with you :)

But I don't have a microphone nor a webcam.... :(


Also, do you have a Celebrate Recovery in your area? It's an amazing program that God has given us as a resource to alleviate loneliness, depression, etc and to bring us closer to Himself through others going through similar struggles.
It's not in the area where I live, but thankx for the suggestion.
 
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Have you joined the Skype chats? This could be another resource for communication and fellowship. :)

Praying for you, and yes the Skype chat is a great idea!
Great idea!! If I could I would have downloaded skype ages ago, maybe God will bless me with a new computer with better RAM.
Littlestar I would try to download skpye if I were you. :prayer:
 
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I am lonely most of the time, sometimes, the lonely feeling just become so obvious making me feeling breathless.

I would go crazily online here and there to look for attention (=communication) (or whatever) and, go on and on, cannot stop, and addicted. And very unhappy. And feeling like in circle and falling deeper and deeper.

Deep inside me, I hunger for communication (= attention).

I tried to find things outside of computer to do. I read, and that's all. I sometimes don't have the mood to read too. And then I would feel so empty.
*** *** *** *** ***

~~~~~~~
And regarding internet, I feel it's just so-temp to ease the loneliness ( + most of the time not working and feeling worse)

I don't use facebook, I feel facebook making people communicate less or more walls between friends.

I email or phone or better in person communicate with people.

But still I can't help *** because I am too lonely. But I just don't use facebook.
Everybody feels lonely. You're not alone. If you ever need someone to talk to about anything feel free to PM me if you need to get something off your chest. People say I'm a good listener. Plus, sometimes it helps to just vent. I'll say a prayer for you. Take care.
 
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