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Also, when I speak against what I believe a person thinks Calvinism is, I will try to clarify what they actually believe. But it is difficult to do that if they are insulting me all the time. For they have to realize that their belief on Calvinism is not the only one. They have to clarify their beliefs from what other people think it actually is. Insulting them for getting their belief wrong is not helpful. People are not mind readers. They do not know what you believe. That is part of why we are in a discussion. To discuss our beliefs.
Anyways, you are making me think more about people's beliefs and how to handle them. From now on: When I speak generally, I will say, one belief in Calvinism states.... "this and this", etc. I will also ask questions about what a person believes Calvinism to be on a particular matter before I speak out against it with them. Now, granted, this does not mean that once I clarified their beliefs, I cannot point out how it is wrong, etc. Like I said, pointing out to someone how a belief in jumping off a cliff because they do not think gravity exists is not a wrong thing to do. It only becomes wrong if I call them stupid for believing such a thing, or if I accuse them falsely of other things as a result.
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Anyways, you are making me think more about people's beliefs and how to handle them. From now on: When I speak generally, I will say, one belief in Calvinism states.... "this and this", etc. I will also ask questions about what a person believes Calvinism to be on a particular matter before I speak out against it with them. Now, granted, this does not mean that once I clarified their beliefs, I cannot point out how it is wrong, etc. Like I said, pointing out to someone how a belief in jumping off a cliff because they do not think gravity exists is not a wrong thing to do. It only becomes wrong if I call them stupid for believing such a thing, or if I accuse them falsely of other things as a result.
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