...the NT introduces God as a loving God, and when you love someone, you don't condemn them to horrible punishments.
Hi Hoghead, while it's easy to focus on the attributes of God that we like best, you know, loving, gracious, kind, long-suffering, forgiving, etc., the problem is, God is no less
holy,
righteous, and
just. Those last three attributes I mentioned are no less important, no less, "Him", than the "feelgood" attributes are, so a balance needs to be struck between all of His attributes to properly understand what any of them mean individually.
The other issue here is whether or not there is any hope for us. According to Calvin, the vast majority of the human race is doomed to eternal damnation. Only a tiny minority are saved and they are so few in number that Calvin says they probably do not meet up with each other in this lifetime. So, chances are that holds for us. But who wants to believe in such a hopeless situation.
I have no doubt that Calvin believes that few follow the narrow road to life, and that many follow the broad road that leads to destruction, especially since that sentiment is completely Biblical. However, I would be interested to know where Calvin tells us that we will probably never meet another Christian in this lifetime because there are so few of us around. Do you know if that comment can be found in his commentaries, or in Institutes, or in something else he wrote?
Finally, I can think of few situations where a proper assessment and understanding of God's word is not preferable to one which hides the truth from us. Quite frankly, those who run headlong down the "broad road" wouldn't have it any other way, and you and I both know that's true. It's not a matter of hopelessness for such people because, quite frankly, the Gospel means nothing to them and sadly, probably never will (
1 Corinthians 2:14).
The ones who hear the broad/narrow road message and are bothered by it are the ones who probably need to hear it the most. They are perhaps ones who know and understand the Gospel, but who continue to steadfastly refuse to surrender their lives to Christ for some reason or another. They need to know that the "broad road" is hopeless before it's too late for them, and a watered down message might give them both a false hope and false assurance
Yours and His,
David