... If we take the struggle among Protestants over predestination and free will to be a struggle between the theology of John Calvin on one hand and John Wesley on the other, where does that leave us?...
Wesleyans struggles with Plan B. The Calvinist leave themselves to God's original plans.
Sometimes we say we made a decision we "didn't want to".
But that's not true. Given the circumstances and options, we actually made the decision we did want to !
Just because a choice wasn't ideal doesn't mean it wasn't our choice.
For example: You wake up in the middle of the night, and your house is on fire. Flame everywhere.
You can leap through those flames knowing you'll suffer painful burns. You make THAT decision to save your life.
Still it is your decision. You could have not gone through the flames and died where you were of smoke inhalation.
We ALWAYS have the power to make a contrary decision. Always !
Every choice we make is voluntary.
Sure, God providentially controls and determines circumstances. How we react to those circumstances, though, is on us.
We cannot evade responsibility for our volition by claiming that the options available to us were limited. As humans, our options are ALWAYS limited !
The Reformation view of "free will" ...the Scriptural view of "free will"... being that we're finite creatures with finite [limited] volitional options.
The Lord's providential management of our circumstances doesn't nullify our volitional freedom ... or responsibility !
Whatever choice we make is our preferred choice under given circumstances.
And THAT's how the Most High synchs our will with His predestination. Not by mind control. Instead by tossing situations at us in which He foreknows how we'll respond.
God maintains His sovereignty in all outcomes while we retain our responsibility for the choices we make.