Am I doomed to hell for lying? I'm young in my faith and having trouble with this as I don't know what to do.
A few years ago while me and my fiance where dating, she was away one night to stay with one of her friends. We had rented an apartment together and I decided to get drunk while she was away. Her sister, not knowing she was gone, came by and I offered her a drink. Long story short, we ended up having relations.The guilt got so bad I eventually confessed that I had an affair, but when she asks who with, I always tell her some woman I met in a bar. Me and my fiance made up eventually, and even when she is mad and throws it up to me, I still tell her it was some woman in a bar. I don't want to ruin the relationship she has with her sister.
I am not saved yet, but I will be in 2014, will I go to hell for keeping this lie going? I can't come clean on this as it would not only wreck our relationship, it would literally tear a family apart and I don't want that. It is rarely brought up, but even when it is, I still maintain that it was the woman in the bar. Is this wrong? Will I go to hell if I maintain it was a woman in a bar after I get saved/baptized? I know there is some instances in the bible of people lying and still going to Heaven, such as Abraham.
God judges the heart, right? I've heard of people interpreting lying/deceiving in the bible as lying to lead others away from God, but not sure if I believe this. I plan to repent as the guilt eats me alive, but I swore years ago I would take this horrible choice to the grave. Any input would be MUCH appreciated.
A few years ago while me and my fiance where dating, she was away one night to stay with one of her friends. We had rented an apartment together and I decided to get drunk while she was away. Her sister, not knowing she was gone, came by and I offered her a drink. Long story short, we ended up having relations.The guilt got so bad I eventually confessed that I had an affair, but when she asks who with, I always tell her some woman I met in a bar. Me and my fiance made up eventually, and even when she is mad and throws it up to me, I still tell her it was some woman in a bar. I don't want to ruin the relationship she has with her sister.
I am not saved yet, but I will be in 2014, will I go to hell for keeping this lie going? I can't come clean on this as it would not only wreck our relationship, it would literally tear a family apart and I don't want that. It is rarely brought up, but even when it is, I still maintain that it was the woman in the bar. Is this wrong? Will I go to hell if I maintain it was a woman in a bar after I get saved/baptized? I know there is some instances in the bible of people lying and still going to Heaven, such as Abraham.
God judges the heart, right? I've heard of people interpreting lying/deceiving in the bible as lying to lead others away from God, but not sure if I believe this. I plan to repent as the guilt eats me alive, but I swore years ago I would take this horrible choice to the grave. Any input would be MUCH appreciated.
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