I just think "conservative" covers such a wide variety of things that it can hold a different meaning to a variety of people, therefore, they draw the line in many places. In my encounters with different types of people, I find I can be quite conservative when it comes to my views on a few issues (being called something of a "Bible-thumper" for so much as voicing some of my convictions), yet not so much in others to the point where I could be moderate (and maybe even "liberal" in the eyes of some, although I don't think so).
Here is a common example: Modesty is a widely debated issue in the realm of Christianity. The conservative in me says that this issue should be more of a concern than what it seems to be. But there are actually people who are so strict that they think a woman is dressing "provocatively" if they so much as wear a pair of jeans. Of course it's their conviction, but some of them (note that I said "some") might feel they are superior to everyone else because of that conviction. So, in their eyes, a woman who wears pants most of the time (like myself) would be considered "liberal".
Now take this, and add it to the seemingly countless other "gray" issues (like Bible versions, politics, music, and such), and we have quite a mess on our hands, just for the sake of having different opinions. Here's where Romans 14 comes in, which mentions eating meat, but can be applied to many other things. It's not giving an "excuse to be lukewarm" (as others undoubtedly have read into this Scripture); it's just encouraging us as believers to respect one another despite having different views on "doubtful things" as mentioned in verse 1, which could very well cover the issues I mentioned above, and more. This isn't to say that we can't have healthy debate and discussions on such issues; it's just that there comes a time to "agree to disagree", and realize that all Christians ultimately strive for the same goal, which is pleasing God the best we know how, and a home in Heaven (where we will be stuck with one another for an eternity, and none of the differences we've been having here on earth will matter anymore).
Myself included, we all need to get better about examining ourselves and our own weaknesses and flaws, and not judging another person, or "removing the speck from our brother's eye while overlooking the plank in our own", (referring to Matthew 7:1-5).
Sorry for rambling on; it's just what's on my heart right now. I only hope it makes some sort of sense.
