This thread is intended as a reference for a discussion elsewhere. This is the only forum in CF where I can describe why liberal Christians accept homosexuality and transgender identity.
[I’ve just rewritten this because the old posting was too wordy.]
In my opinion, the New Testament doesn’t talk about relationships that Christian homosexuals are asking about, and the Old Testament is not relevant to us.
* The Sodom story is about rape. That’s prohibited whether same-sex or opposite-sex
* The laws in Leviticus are part of a purity code that Christians don’t accept. It’s based on a whole approach of respecting boundaries, and Christians don’t otherwise accept it (mixing fibers in clothes, kosher laws, etc).
* Rom 1 wasn’t about homosexuality. That came into it, but the real attack was on idolatry. He believed that as a result of idolatry, people ended up with disordered morals. As part of that, they became bored with normal sex and turned to unnatural sex. What I’ve read about Romans actually agrees with that. The culture saw wives as for legitimate children, but you got your pleasure elsewhere. But gay Christians aren’t turning to the same sex because they’ve gotten bored with heterosexual relations. It is their normal sex.
Incidentally, if you understand Paul’s argument in the early chapters of Romans, it appears that Rom 1:18-32 is actually not his opinion. It’s something he is quoting in order to reject it. He does that in Rom 2. However this isn’t the place for a detailed exegesis of Romans.
* The two sin lists, 1 Cor 6:9 and 1 Tim 1:10, use words that we don’t entirely understand. The key one is made from roots meaning “male beds.” But there isn’t enough use outside the Bible to be sure what it means. It can be understood as male prostitutes, and at one point was even understood as a reference to masturbation. These days many scholars think it and the next word referred to what today we’d call “tops” and “bottoms.”
Why differentiate? Because in that culture it was unacceptable for an adult male to be a “bottom.” He could only take the active role. Bottoms were slaves or children. So Paul is pointing to relationships in which an adult takes advantage of either a slave or a child. Maybe. If the current guess about what the words mean is right.
* Both the creation story and Jesus (Mark 10:6 ff) refer to men and women marrying. But the Bible often describes the normal pattern. In other cases this isn’t understood as preventing exceptions. Imagine prohibiting wheelchairs because God created mankind with legs. Jesus focused on intent. If someone attracted to the same gender wants to have the same kind of relationship Jesus referred to, I don’t see that there’s a problem with that.
So why do I say the Bible supports gay marriage? In the passage containing 1 Cor 7:7, Paul recognized celibacy as a gift. People shouldn’t be alone unless they have that gift. Otherwise they’re asking for trouble, because sexual desire will pull them into relationships they should be in. This is just as true for people attracted to the same gender as opposite gender.
This thread contains references with more detailed treatments of the issue, including my view of Paul's concept of "natural":
Can anyone give me some names of LGBT-affirming christian theologians,philosophers?. You will note that there are pro-gay treatments that I do not recommend, because they make Paul say things that he evidently didn’t say.
Please follow the discussion for the next couple of pages, since there are other concerns that aren't dealt with in this posting.
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liberal approaches to homosexuality and transgender
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I’m not an expert in transgender identity. I’ve read actual experts, but I find it hard to cite any one specific reference. It does seem clear that there are people that have problems with their sexual identity, and that these problems are serious enough to justify treatment. Many reports suggest that transition helps. (I had an employee go through transition, and the results seem to have been good.) It’s also not a cure-all. Suicide rates still remain higher among people who have transitioned. Personally I’d suggest it as a last resort. But the problem seems real, and I have no problem with people who adopt some or all of a sexual identity opposite to their physical gender to deal with it. I can’t quite understand why many Christians judge these people.
I really don’t see a Biblical issue here. There are plenty of cases where for good reasons we change people from how God made them. We treat birth defects. We amputate parts of the body when survival is at risk. God ordained suffering for childbirth as a punishment, but we deal with it with pain killers or anesthesia. As far as I can see there’s no rational reason why we use legalistic approaches on this one issue.
Here’s an article that discusses the problems that lead to people living as transgender:
Opinion | How Changeable Is Gender?. This article is fairly moderate. It points out that gender reassignment isn’t perfect, though the article doesn’t cite the evidence that it often helps. The Wikipedia article
Gender dysphoria - Wikipedia is a reasonable summary, and does cite that evidence. (It perhaps isn’t quite skeptical enough, which is why I cited both.)
I remind people reading this that this posting is in the Liberal forum. It is a violation of the SOP of this group to condemn gays or trangenders, or Christians who advocate for them.