• The General Mental Health Forum is now a Read Only Forum. As we had two large areas making it difficult for many to find, we decided to combine the Mental Health & the Recovery sections of the forum into Mental Health & Recovery as a whole. Physical Health still remains as it's own area within the entire Recovery area.

    If you are having struggles, need support in a particular area that you aren't finding a specific recovery area forum, you may find the General Struggles forum a great place to post. Any any that is related to emotions, self-esteem, insomnia, anger, relationship dynamics due to mental health and recovery and other issues that don't fit better in another forum would be examples of topics that might go there.

    If you have spiritual issues related to a mental health and recovery issue, please use the Recovery Related Spiritual Advice forum. This forum is designed to be like Christian Advice, only for recovery type of issues. Recovery being like a family in many ways, allows us to support one another together. May you be blessed today and each day.

    Kristen.NewCreation and FreeinChrist

  • Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

Letters to abuser

Ssarl

Senior Veteran
Dec 7, 2004
1,881
107
✟25,083.00
Faith
Christian
Thanks once again for sharing!
I have studied attachment, but the focus was on healthy - we didn't really do any clinical on it. I did the checklist for attachment disorder, and found that I have experienced some of the symptoms - although most have lightened quite severely since I started taking these things to Christ. I'd class myself as having a mild case of perhaps half of them, with some moderates.

I most definately went through a rebellious hyperactive phase, and I was very much into self-destructive and self-depreciative behaviour. That is changing rapidly at the moment, hooray! I never did think to lash out or be cruel to anybody else, just never seemed to occur. Actually, my relationships in Brisbane are excellent; I have my moments of doubting that anybody cares, but nobody's ever had a problem dealing with that (they just find it impossible to believe somebody so 'cool' thinks of himself that way. Others' words, not mine! Though they make me smile. :))

I love that they nominate morbidity as a 'symptom'. In my demographic it's perfectly normal and socially encouraged behaviour! Comedic violence, or blatantly fictional gruesomeness is ever so fun. Exploding hippoes and the like. :) Anything approaching reality I do not see the appeal of, however...

Likewise, being an incessant chatterer and the master of nonsensical tangents has been a defining characteristic my entire life. Though they class that as a 'symptom' of certain disorders, I do *not* intend to see it as a bad thing! :) Forunately, I have friends that can match me, and we enjoy it muchly.
 
Upvote 0