The below passages may have already been offered, but I would suggest that another way of saying that we are "led by the Spirit" is to say that we are "controlled" by the Spirit.
2 Corinthians 5:14-15 NLT - "Either way, Christ's love controls us. Since we believe that Christ died for all, we also believe that we have all died to our old life. He died for everyone so that those who receive his new life will no longer live for themselves. Instead, they will live for Christ, who died and was raised for them."
Most Christians deny the idea of being "controlled" by the Spirit. Why? Because they aren't actually Christians who are being controlled. Instead, they are sinful people, for their Spiritual Father remains the Devil . . . who is controlling them. But will these mistaken Christians deny that Satan controls them? Of course they will, for they truly believe they are true Christians. But the truth is this: When a person is controlled by the Spirit, they will know it, for it becomes obvious that their life is no longer their own, but have been bought and purchased by the Blood of Christ. When this actually happens to a person, they are given a new Nature, the Divine Nature. The Sinful Nature is replaced with the Divine Nature and an entirely new life ensues. This is Spiritual Transformation. This is but another way of saying that true Children of God "wake up."
Romans 8:2 NKJV - "For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has made me free from the law of sin and death."
2 Peter 1:3-4 NLT - "By his divine power, God has given us everything we need for living a godly life. We have received all of this by coming to know him, the one who called us to himself by means of his marvelous glory and excellence. And because of his glory and excellence, he has given us great and precious promises. These are the promises that enable you to share his divine nature and escape the world's corruption caused by human desires."
Being led by the Spirit of God is to be controlled by the Spirit of God. Changes are made within our minds and hearts so that our behaviors change. If these changes have not been made in a person's life, they need to seriously pray to God and ask for them. Why? Because God has yet to become their Spiritual Father. We all need to be praying that God would control us, for these are the prayers of our Patriarchs.
Psalm 141:3 NLT - "Take control of what I say, O LORD, and guard my lips."
Psalm 19:13 NLT - "Keep your servant from deliberate sins! Don't let them control me. Then I will be free of guilt and innocent of great sin."
Psalm 51:10 RSV - "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me."
Psalm 86:11 NET - "O LORD, teach me how you want me to live! Then I will obey your commands. Make me wholeheartedly committed to you!"
1 Chronicles 29:18-19 NLT - "O LORD, the God of our ancestors Abraham, Isaac, and Israel, make your people always want to obey you. See to it that their love for you never changes. 19 Give my son Solomon the wholehearted desire to obey all your commands, laws, and decrees, and to do everything necessary to build this Temple, for which I have made these preparations."
Psalm 119:10 NKJV - "With my whole heart I have sought You; Oh, let me not wander from Your commandments!"
Psalm 119:35-37 CSB - "Help me stay on the path of your commands, for I take pleasure in it. Turn my heart to your decrees and not to dishonest profit. Turn my eyes from looking at what is worthless; give me life in your ways."
Yes, there are many more prayers such as those above. Who is praying to be controlled by God? Who desires this? And honestly, for those who have habitually struggled with sin, have they not asked the Lord to control them? Yet is these same people who deny that God does just that. Most Christians believe they have total free will, thus, there is no way that God can control them.