LDR rant

[Glorianna]

Sorry, I felt the need to revive this thread! LDR's can definitely be an amazing blessing! I wouldn't know Clay nearly as well as I know him now if we weren't in an LDR. We talk every single day and sometimes late at night! I think that late night phone conversations are incredible. I love those as well. And the times we do have together are even more amazing. I

 

[flounder7786]

LDR suck, but they are also QUITE a blessing...remember WHY you are doing it...that always helps me

 

[Glorianna]

And why are you doing it flounder7786?

 

[flounder7786]

hehe, cause i love him more than anything in the world...because i cannot wait to be his wife, because i cant wait till we build a solid marriage and honor God with everything we do...because i cannot wait to take his name, because i love him sooo terribly much taht i am willing to do the LD thing for a while...

I LOVE THAT MAN!!!

 

[Peculiarone]

Good to know but help a sista out that is in one country to country.

 

[Glorianna]

hehe, cause i love him more than anything in the world...because i cannot wait to be his wife, because i cant wait till we build a solid marriage and honor God with everything we do...because i cannot wait to take his name, because i love him sooo terribly much taht i am willing to do the LD thing for a while...

I LOVE THAT MAN!!!

I can totally relate honey!

Sorry Peculiarone, I totally don't understand you.

 

[flounder7786]

me too...didnt understand that...

 

[Glorianna]

Hopefully she comes back to explain!

 

[KristianJ]

She's in one with someone in a different country, Ally and flounder...I think from other posts she's made in other threads she's struggling a bit as well.

All I can say is this, Peculairone...trusting in God is paramount. Danie and I have survived for over 4 months now, and I believe that we would have split a long time ago if we weren't relying on God to lead us. We had an issue that arose last week that could have potentially led to us splitting, but sticking to the truth and our feelings for each other helped us to ride that trough and come out with a stronger bond between us. A LDR's a rollercoaster of many different things, and placing God at the controls will help you and your partner stay on the rails.

 

[Peculiarone]

Well what I was saying is....I read the post of the persons who are in the LDR like from state to state and all but I am all the way in a LDR from country to country, so what to do then? Imagine ocean aparts...

 

[Peculiarone]

She's in one with someone in a different country, Ally and flounder...I think from other posts she's made in other threads she's struggling a bit as well.

All I can say is this, Peculairone...trusting in God is paramount. Danie and I have survived for over 4 months now, and I believe that we would have split a long time ago if we weren't relying on God to lead us. We had an issue that arose last week that could have potentially led to us splitting, but sticking to the truth and our feelings for each other helped us to ride that trough and come out with a stronger bond between us. A LDR's a rollercoaster of many different things, and placing God at the controls will help you and your partner stay on the rails.

Thanks soooo much for this post. You explained my 2 previous posts best and you gave me a great answer. I will take the advice too.

My beau and I have been going out for 6 months now. Last time I saw him was 6 months. So I will discuss it with him about incorporating God mor ein the relationship.

Thanks again.

 

[Glorianna]

Thanks soooo much for this post. You explained my 2 previous posts best and you gave me a great answer. I will take the advice too.

My beau and I have been going out for 6 months now. Last time I saw him was 6 months. So I will discuss it with him about incorporating God mor ein the relationship.

Thanks again.

I know what it's like to be in a different country that your SO. Although we don't have an ocean between us, he lives in South Carolina (USA) and I live in British Columbia (Canada). I haven't seen him since August but I get to see him on December 20th because I'm going to visit him! But I know just how hard it is. We can't take it much longer and are working toward getting married in October because we know that it's God's will and that we will be happy being married to each other for the rest of our lives.

/me sighs happily

 

[KristianJ]

Thanks soooo much for this post. You explained my 2 previous posts best and you gave me a great answer. I will take the advice too.

My beau and I have been going out for 6 months now. Last time I saw him was 6 months. So I will discuss it with him about incorporating God mor ein the relationship.

Thanks again.

You're most welcome - always happy to pass on any advice based on what I've experienced already.

 

[Glorianna]

You're most welcome - always happy to pass on any advice based on what I've experienced already.

Ain't that the truth? I love sharing my experiences with others so that they can learn from my mistakes. And offering advice, even though it may not always be taken, is always a good thing.

 

[KristianJ]

And it's amazing how much people do share, isn't it, Allison? The openness of everybody is something to be truly excited about - seeing what God's doing in our relationships.

 

[Glorianna]

And it's amazing how much people do share, isn't it, Allison? The openness of everybody is something to be truly excited about - seeing what God's doing in our relationships.

Definitely KJ.