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Man, I know exactly what you mean, but in this particular scenario, it seems as if you may be one of a handful of eligible suitors for the gal, but there's always potential.
You can't include me. I am apparently supposed to be going after sweetlambofgod.
 
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Yeah its rough. I really wish it wasnt that way as she is QUITE the awesome girl and I think we could have something.

Haha! You never know until you try. What's funny is that just cuz you get along with someone online or even over the phone doesn't mean that you will "click" in person.

I've met many people from online over the years for whatever reason. One girl in this area I thought was REALLY awesome and we talked all the time.. well we finally ended up meeting at a Starbucks and we so didn't "click" in person.

I guess there's something to be said about body language and just non-verbal communication in general. Anyway, I'm sure that wouldn't happen to ya'll though since you are compatible on so many different levels. What with you guys both being graphics or animation geeks and sharing a love for Jeeps and nature. That's all you really need for a successful relationship anyway.
 
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Haha! You never know until you try. What's funny is that just cuz you get along with someone online or even over the phone doesn't mean that you will "click" in person.

I've met many people from online over the years for whatever reason. One girl in this area I thought was REALLY awesome and we talked all the time.. well we finally ended up meeting at a Starbucks and we so didn't "click" in person.

I guess there's something to be said about body language and just non-verbal communication in general. Anyway, I'm sure that wouldn't happen to ya'll though since you are compatible on so many different levels. What with you guys both being graphics or animation geeks and sharing a love for Jeeps and nature. That's all you really need for a successful relationship anyway.
haha.. Yeah man, I've done the same. Really click with the talking/chatting, but not so much with the real life. :sorry: That's why I wouldn't really want to do one of those "online relationships" with her. I mean she is great, but we both pretty much are the type that feels you need to have that real life meeting and whatnot to know if you really could build something with the opposite sex.

That being said.. yes, we do have all that graphics/outdoors/dork/nerd thing shared. ^_^ :p
 
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Dave and I are dating in an alternate reality, but not in this one. Haha!

Yes, 1600 miles is kind of far for two people who very much love where they currently live.
haha. It's true. Coming up on our third date now, huh? :thumbsup:

I got it.. you buy a house there.. I'll buy a house (or Condo since houses are ridiculously priced here) here.. and then we'll jump back and forth. :sorry:

haha. ;)

"But I want to spend next month in CA.."
"No.. AR next month!"
"FINE.. you go to AR, Im staying in CA. I'll be there after next month. See you online. ;) :hug:"
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Well, if we were ever to decide to try to work something out, we'd be sure to consult you guys for everyone's opinions and a suggested plan. *rolling eyes*
:sorry: :blush:

Anyways, everyone, getting less serious here...

I think I'll just invest in my own personal jet. Then I'll just fly there sometimes.

OR.. I'll put a jet engine and wings on my Jeep.. then I CAN take my Jeep there. :doh:
 
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From what I understand, from fellow Christians who I know who have met their spouse from online, if there was significant distance, and eventually after meeting up and getting to know each other, and if possible marriage was in the works, it was the woman who moved because the woman follows the man. Sort of like when Rebecca met Isaac, she moved from where she was living to be with her man.
 
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You know, honestly it doesn't really matter in this situation. David has already told you--we're friends, we have fun together, but nothing serious is going on. We're not headed in that direction.

Teasing us about it in a lighthearted way is fine; trying to plan things out is not cool. We are both in agreement that various factors rule out the development of anything serious. He is a great guy and I am honored to have his attention and his friendship, but we're not in a relationship or planning on getting into one.

That's all, ok? Thanks. :wave:
 
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^^ What she said.. sorry to cut the fun short like that. But if we keep getting this too serious, you all will be let down when me and latteda move forward with our lives (as we both figure we will).

Her first.. as I keep telling her. ;) hhaha ^_^
 
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This thread reminds me of third grade. I half expected to have spitballs flying across the room.

As a neutral observer from afar, I can attest that Latteda is no doubt a gorgeous lady. But she has an inner beauty --- a love for God and for other people, particularly those less fortunate ---- that is even greater.
 
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Well, if we were ever to decide to try to work something out, we'd be sure to consult you guys for everyone's opinions and a suggested plan. *rolling eyes*

You know, honestly it doesn't really matter in this situation. David has already told you--we're friends, we have fun together, but nothing serious is going on. We're not headed in that direction.

Teasing us about it in a lighthearted way is fine; trying to plan things out is not cool. We are both in agreement that various factors rule out the development of anything serious. He is a great guy and I am honored to have his attention and his friendship, but we're not in a relationship or planning on getting into one.

That's all, ok? Thanks. :wave:

^^ What she said.. sorry to cut the fun short like that. But if we keep getting this too serious, you all will be let down when me and latteda move forward with our lives (as we both figure we will).

Her first.. as I keep telling her. ;) hhaha ^_^

I'm requesting this thread be closed by the mod's.....for the reason ^^.

Sorry guys, I haven't read in here for a few days. :(
 
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This thread reminds me of third grade. I half expected to have spitballs flying across the room.

As a neutral observer from afar, I can attest that Latteda is no doubt a gorgeous lady. But she has an inner beauty --- a love for God and for other people, particularly those less fortunate ---- that is even greater.

Thank you, Mark. That is very kind of you to say. I appreciate it. :hug:


I'm requesting this thread be closed by the mod's.....for the reason ^^.

Sorry guys, I haven't read in here for a few days. :(

It's fine. No big deal. :cool:
 
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As a neutral observer from afar, I can attest that Latteda is no doubt a gorgeous lady. But she has an inner beauty --- a love for God and for other people, particularly those less fortunate ---- that is even greater.
hehe.. yes sir.. you are correct. :thumbsup:
 
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