Guys can contribute too but I'm particularly interested in what women think about PreNups especially as Christian women.
I think it's unwise to go into a marriage without one if you actually have assets to protect.
It doesn't mean you don't trust your potential spouse, nor does it mean you aren't serious. I compare it to the acrobats at the circus who swing around and talk on tight ropes...They don't do it without a net. No matter how much they've practiced, no matter how good they are, strong they are, how good their balance is, how much they trust one another. Some may go years and years, or their entire acrobat career without falling. But one slip and if that net isn't there, then somebody's going to have to scrape brains off the floor.
There's no asset I care about enough to consider it in a preemptive plan for marital failure.
Because I am not interested in a preemptive plan for marital failure.
If my marriage fails, she can have everything if she wants it.
Yeah, me neither. That said, if a split were to happen, I would much rather take care of things just the two of us personally, rather than having any legal stuff involved.There's absolutely no way I can wrap my head around that, so I guess I'll just have to agree to disagree.
A prenup would actually fall in line with Matt. 5:25 by compromising with your opponent to avoid trouble. That's not to say you have to have one though.
If for some reason I did get married I would be the one who wanted a prenup.