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Labeling harmless actions/things/activities as immoral.

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I disagree that the golden rule is some kind of objective fact.

It's just a good/sane idea for a socially interactive species that depends on cooperation.
The more complex a society gets, the better an idea it also becomes.

And "better" not in the sense of "correct", but in the sense of "resulting in a society in which people can flourish".
 
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Personally, I'd rather NOT have a society where women or men run around nonchalantly in the nude just for 'nudeness sake' as if it's a party night at the Playboy Mansion..... just sayin'!

An afghan might say "I'ld rather NOT have a society where women run around nochalantly wearing tight jeans or skirts or anything but a burka"

You are just confirming what I said. Your analogy to the playboy mansion says it all.
Again, in those cultures where women walk around topless, naked breasts aren't seen as a sexual thing.
 
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You really needed a university course to figure this out?
 
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That confirms its significance for humans.
Not just christians.

As the article says, just about any ethical and religious tradition includes this rule one way or the other.

I frankly don't understand your point- it seems to be chasing after a straw man. Lutherans don't argue that understanding morality is exclusively Christian. Moralism is not the point of our faith.
 
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Christianity doesn't do that at all. You are conflating a few Christians with Christianity.
Additionally, what standard are you using to proclaim an activity harmless?
 
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Reason for weekly meetings:

All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. -- Acts 2

All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of their possessions was their own, but they shared everything they had. With great power the apostles continued to testify to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus.

And God’s grace was so powerfully at work in them all that there were no needy persons among them. For from time to time those who owned land or houses sold them, brought the money from the sales and put it at the apostles’ feet, and it was distributed to anyone who had need.
--Acts 4

The second commandment should be actively and directly applied in those weekly meetings.
 
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You really needed a university course to figure this out?

No, but maybe you do. Apparently, you don't know how to recognize the difference between a Christian community situated in a Western nation where "topless" is problematic and a cultural situation that differs from this, such as it does in one of the many African Tribes residing in Africa. Duh! Moreover, simply referring to how African individuals who live in one of many tribes may conceptualize their mores regarding the female breasts doesn't tell us anything much about how those African tribes ACTUALLY function socially and/or appropriate and apply their moral ideas. It also doesn't mean that they get a free pass on the "morality scale" simply because certain anthropologists and/or sociologists may tell us "such-and-such."

....I mean, it's not like we're not REALLY living in a world of Moral Relativism.

For you to oversimplify the problem by referring to how the female form is thought about among African Tribes says little or nothing about how, say, Americans in the U.S. SHOULD see it or how they should regulate it....or even regulate the male form, for that matter.
 
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I frankly don't understand your point- it seems to be chasing after a straw man. Lutherans don't argue that understanding morality is exclusively Christian. Moralism is not the point of our faith.

Then I misunderstood and I applogize.

It sounded like you were trying to take credit for that rule, which just about every civilisation of humans ever has stumbled upon independently.

A lot of christians like to claim that Jesus somehow introduced this for the first time and that it thus is an exclusively christian idea.
 
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Additionally, what standard are you using to proclaim an activity harmless?

Seems like you are answering your own question.
Activities that cause harm, aren't harmless.

Seems straightforward enough....
 
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You're reading waaaaay too much into it.
I never talked about "should". I didn't say one is better then the other or vice versa.

I was just pointing out cultural difference. And by that, pointing out that there is nothing objectively wrong OR right about naked breasts.

I am just as much a "victim" (by lack of a better word) of our cultural background then anyone else. I too think of naked breasts in a sexual manner. I too would feel uncomfortable walking in the streets and crossing a bunch of naked ladies. I too would be staring and thinking "hubba hubba".

It's just that I realise that I experience it like that, because I grew up in a culture that treats it like that.

Once more, to be extra clear: I never mentioned any "should"s. I never said one is "better" then the other. My only point was that clearly, there's nothing objective about it. It's subjective and based in cultural difference.
 
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Right. Issues like this one are culturally diverse in their expression, appropriation and acceptance. But whether or not some people in African tribes have "no problem?" with this really isn't germane to how we in Western cultures may be having "problems" with social and media driven attitudes that are situated in our own culture and, perhaps, causing us some levels of social dysfunction. Of course, as a Christian, I'd say that they (i.e. attitudes like those of pornographers and/or traffickers) are part and parcel of a network of modern alternative social beliefs that run counter to those of the Bible.

What this issue ISN'T is one that has anything to do with supposedly naming and shaming some part of the female anatomy. No, that isn't at issue at all here! Of course female breasts are natural. Of course feeding one's infants with those same God-given, natural breasts ... is natural. Of course, breasts play a part in the sexual intercourse that take place between a husband and wife. So, let's make sure we move these "little" distinctions out of the discussion here.

In which case, with what I'm making distinctions about in the issues above, I'm implying that there definitely is something RIGHT (and natural) about female breasts and their place in society (duh!), but that the social, attitudinal, and moral ways in which we may be tempted to display and represent female breasts, particularly in a raunchy or pornographic manner, may be WRONG.
 
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Disagree.

You continue to speak about showing/not showing breasts as if there is an objective right/wrong there.

I completely disagree with that.

I'll agree that there is a subjective right/wrong. And even that is something I struggle with.
I find myself asking the question if "socially (un)acceptable" is really synonymous with (im)moral.

Because I feel like ladies showing their breasts in public is more appropriately called "socially unacceptable", while something doesn't feel right with calling it "immoral".

Because when I'm at the beach, and half the ladies are sunbathing in naked breasts, then it's suddenly pretty much socially acceptable again.

If they get up and then leave the beach to get an ice cream accross the streets, without putting their T-shirts back on, then suddenly it's not socially acceptable any longer.

At what does "morality" really come into this?
It's not clear to me at all.

But anyway, enough about naked breasts, lol.

I'll just agree to disagree here.
 
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Ok. I'd say my view approximates something along the lines of what you're saying, just from a more Christian type angle. So, we can let it rest.
 
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A lot of christians like to claim that Jesus somehow introduced this for the first time and that it thus is an exclusively christian idea.
Jesus never claimed that when He spoke it He was introducing it for the first time.

“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.” Matthew 7:12
 
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nahhh the other golden rule works better, "Treat others as THEY wish to be treated, AKA, not as you think someone should be treated, but as they do. Someone can believe everything you do about how people should be treated, except for one thing.. how should you treat someone of another religion, or is a woman acting in a way that you don't think should be and such.

It's very easy to justify bad behaviour in, "If I was wearing a provocative dress I would want someone to berate me and learn why I'm wrong." kind of thing.
 
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A great many are converted in prisons due to strong efforts to bring the Good News to prisoners, to the lost. Of course, once converted, they are still in that prison until released.

Also claiming to be Christian is a good way to get out of jail even though it's biased.
 
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War. Hardcore drug use. Abortion. Bullying. Gluttony. Greed. Selfishness. Conspiracy obsession. Tyranny. Etc.

funny I see alot of that coming from the right latly.

the whole war mongering we see so much.

selfishness and greed define the rights feelings about economy.

Conspiracy theories is sort of a mix bag, but just have to look at trump and alex jones to see all the insane conspiarcy obession latly.

On bullying it's a weird thing, as adult's it's frowned upon, as kids it's seen as building character and teaching kids the harsh truths about reality, and shouldn't be punnished.
 
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Also claiming to be Christian is a good way to get out of jail even though it's biased.
Really? Interesting. But i wouldn't expect the parole board to be inexperienced or easy to fool. They will probably learn by feedback how and which people they released early went out and committed crimes, over time.
 
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Seems like you are answering your own question.
Activities that cause harm, aren't harmless.

Seems straightforward enough....

while I agree, the issue comes from what is the definition of harm, many Christians would say the above stuff is harmful along with being gay, or worshipping other religions and such because it leads you away from god and goes to hell. The problem isn't definition of harmful, it's what qualifies as harmful.
 
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Really? Interesting. But i wouldn't expect the parole board to be inexperienced or easy to fool. They will probably learn by feedback how and which people they released early went out and committed crimes, over time.

Not sure about in prison, just going by what the common belief is wether it actually helps or not. Also it definetly does outside of it, just have to see every time a politician or pastor or celeberty does something morally wrong they just come out and say they prayed to jesus, or found god and suddenly people act like they never acted wrong. It seems for many a convient get out of jail free card, even if it's post jail.
 
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