Kids

[~Beauty_from_Pain~]

Have you made up your mind on if you want kids, how many you want?

 

[Wren]

No, still not sure. I was pretty sure that I didn't want to have any kids, as a result of a lot of prayer. Then I started spending more time with my nephew (who is 2 1/2 years old). While I still think my giving birth to a child would be a very bad idea, I am now open to the idea of adopting--particularly from the foster care system. If I do adopt, I think I'd want two kids (probably siblings that I'd adopt at the same time).

 

[* kittie *]

none

 

[Inkachu]

You don't include any options for those of us who already have kids

I chose "other".

I have one and I'm happy with one. I might have been willing to have another if I'd married, but since I'm past 30 now and don't even have a boyfriend, let alone a marriage, I don't think I'll be having anymore. Kinda sad. I would've liked another baby

 

[deliciousBass]

Yeah, I want 1-3 more kids.

 

[AuburnMeg]

I do want kids, but I'm not sure how many. I always thought I only wanted one, but twins run on both sides of my family, and I just have a feeling that I'm next. I would would be happy with two or three I think.

 

[canehdianhotstuff]

Looking for 3 girls lol.

Onika, Mia, and Nina.

 

[JonMiller]

I know I want kids and I know how many I want, at least 3.

JM

 

[Starcradle]

I have suffered through a prolonged, internal struggle regarding this matter. At one point I was convinced that I was undeserving of marriage if, as a healthy woman, I was unwilling to procreate. I have asked God to grant me the desire for children that so many females possess. When that desire continued to elude me, I had decided that I was willing to step out in faith during my last engagement and nevertheless have children had we gotten married. Since that time, however, I have accepted the reality that I do not want children and never have. I have taken care of nieces, nephews, siblings, and cousins since I was a teenager. Many of them seemed to like me for some bizarre reason. Even so, I have never wanted children of my own and I am already 33 years of age. At certain points, I have questioned whether I was "abnormal."

I must clarify that if I become pregnant during our marriage (mine and my beloved's), I will not for one moment consider abortion or adoption.

 

[Bampot]

I'll see if I want children when I get to that point in my life. First comes my education, getting a steady job, a house, and a number of other things. If I'm going to bring another person into this world, I want them to be able to have everything they need.

 

[Jerimi]

2 children. One girl, one boy.

 

[Luther073082]

Melissa and I know that we want to eventually have children. I think we've for the most part decided to take a wait and see approach to see how things work out.

3 I think is probably the best guess we can give right now.

 

[~Beauty_from_Pain~]

You don't include any options for those of us who already have kids

I chose "other".

I have one and I'm happy with one. I might have been willing to have another if I'd married, but since I'm past 30 now and don't even have a boyfriend, let alone a marriage, I don't think I'll be having anymore. Kinda sad. I would've liked another baby

I thought of that but then for some reason I thought that if one had kids they still might not know if they wanted more or how many they want...sorry.

 

[CrusaderKing]

I'm honestly indifferent on the entire issue of kids. Years ago, I didn't want them. Right now, I don't want kids. I'm simply not ready for kids at this point in my life. That might change five years down the road.

 

[Beauty4Ashes]

I'm actually not sure. I go back and forth on it. I' definately in no rush to have them soon. If I did, I wouldn't want more than 2 at the most. Even though I am undecided I love kids. I have worked with them for years. And in the back of my mind, I figure I probably will end up having them eventually.

 

[mina]

I definitely want kids. How many will depend on a lot of things. And I also want to adopt if my husband and I are able. I know that i definitely do not want multiple children at one time, like jon and kate plus a bajillion and octomom

 

[SonicBOOM]

I want 3. At least 1 boy and at least one girl

 

[Trashionista]

#3. Yes, 2 FTR.

 

[frenzy]

No kids for me.

 

[Manda_24]

I definitely want kids and I don't think I'd want any more than three.