razzelflabben
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No problem....I would like to say this however, love, real love is beyond our understanding, beyond our capacity to grasp. Our emotional connections that we see as love are pale attempts to feel value that only God can give.My deepest apologies to razzelflabben, I am pleased with how you have maintained the original topic, I am sorry to sidetrack it, but, I mearly wanted to show the one of which you are trying to understand love, cannot feel love since he has not felt love, the love of Christ.
Let me put this another way and see if it makes more sense. We are hard wired as people to "need" to feel valued, to need unconditional love, to need to be loved. It's who we are as a people. Many years ago (many many years ago) they did a study in which they took orphan babies, each was equally healthy. One group was fed and changed and kept clean. The other group was fed, changed, kept clean through contact and affectionate interaction. The group who were "shown love" thrived, while the group that did not get this attention did not. Scripture tells us that all men desire unconditional love (presented the passage can look it up again if need be). Anyway, it's who we are, we obtain our value from the love that is given us. But love isn't just an emotion, so love comes to us in a host of different ways. In fact, I was able to identify 11 pictures of love in scripture, these are like snapshots of what love looks like, or examples that we can identify with.
Anyway, back to the point. Real love returns to us the love value or love worth that the world strips from us. You see, the world tells us we are not loved, that we have no real worth. The world tells us that all love is conditional, that real worth is measured in things. The world tells us that we can strive our entire lives and still, in the end, be nothing more than dust, a fleeting breath. Real love restores to us a value, a worth beyond anything we can imagine. It gives back to us the value of who we are because it is using us for the purpose we were created, to know and receive unconditional love. When God reaches down and touches our lives and loves us, we find that we once again have value and worth. The point being this, the real value of love is not that we feel it, or that we have an emotional connection to it, but the real value of love is that it restores us to our original createdness, our original purpose. Real love gives us an identity, a worth, a value so great that our minds and hearts cannot conceive it.
Just some thoughts, I do so love the topic of God's amazing love.
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