First off, a good cry never hurt anyone. Sorry, but I personally feel strongly that many parents today insist in sparing their children any sense of personal responsibility for anything they do. The world is not like that. People don't like selfish or mean people. It is good they learn that early in life as opposed to later.
Of course.
However, there are ways and means. "You're a liar and a hypocrite if you do X" is not much of an argument for not doing X. There's all the guilt and none of the reason. Cultivating empathy rather than fear and guilt seems to me to be far kinder, and far more efficient, actually. If I have children, I would prefer that they are kind and selfless because they want to be - because it feels good, because it's beautiful - rather than because they're afraid of my or God's anger if they are not.
The techniques used at that camp amount to emotional abuse. I do not think they will produce healthy adults.
Children need to be taught to respect their President, no matter if they agree with him or not. They should pray for their President if they believe in prayer. They should respect their elders and those in authority.
Well, firstly, the rather creepy bit is that they almost seem to be praying
to the president, not for him.
Secondly, would you say the same if Obama won the election and they had a cutout of him at the camp? (Except that they wouldn't, of course, because if Obama wins, he won't have been ordained by God to win America back for Christ; he'll have been appointed by Satan, or some such nonsense.)
They also need to be taught how to respond righteously to abuse. And they may need to receive a counterbalance to the excesses of secular society. The theory of evolution is not all there is. Darwinism has it's share of problems. Liberalism is not a good thing as one may assume.
Sure, but again, I don't see a need to introduce young children to the abortion debate, for example, before they are old enough to understand why people have abortions and why other people object to them doing so. What it amounts to is a man standing at the front of the room and saying "Some women kill babies. Isn't that evil?" and any young child with any sense of empathy will probably say "Yes!" A young child is not in a position to critically assess the claim that a foetus is a baby, or the claim that there are no good reasons to have an abortion, or, frankly, many other claims about abortion. And therefore you are essentially making their mind up for them by giving them a highly emotive and one-sided account before they are old enough to make an informed decision for themselves.
I guess it depends what you want more: your children holding all the same views about you, or your children being well-informed and able to think critically in order to decide for themselves and form their own opinions.