His sister posted this, here:
http://www.cin.org/archives/cinapol/200201/0001.html
In Reply to: James White's sister to be on CHN (EWTN)
in Feb. posted by Tracy in Montana (Tracy i on January
12, 2002 at :
Dear Friends,
Word got back to me that there was some discussion
concerning my conversation with Jim Anderson. I
thought I would clarify a few things.
First of all, thank you for your kind words and your
encouragement. I need your prayers for my appearance
on JH on Feb. 11th. I long for people to see Jesus in
my testimony. I long to heal wounds and safeguard the
faith of Catholics.
As far as my mother's reaction, I was preparing to
tell my parents back in October of 2000 when my mother
discovered my concealed crucifix. I had just promiced
the Lord that I wouldn not hide it under my sweater
again and that I would write them a letter that week.
Well, it was definitely the last time I had to hide
it, but not because of my letter. She pulled it out
herself and then became hysterical with grief. You
have to understand that to my parents my conversion is
more along the lines of consigning my soul and those
of my children to hell. From her point of view it is a
tragedy. I have to remind myself of that sometimes. It
helps me to respond in love and mercy rather than
wrath and self defense. If my parents had converted
before me, I would have been tempted to have them
committed! So I understand how upset they are about my
conversion. It may take years before we can discuss it
calmly. I long for the day.
As far as making a big deal about my relationship to
James, I think he is planning on doing that. I have
two reasons for telling the world that I am his
sister. One is that I am. No one can truly know how
difficult it is to hear God's call to Rome and know
they are going to have to deal with him the rest of
your life. Its a bit like crossing the Tiber at flood
stage. The other reason is that I have watched James
deal one blow after another against Christ's Church
and it grieves me greatly. I absolutely must do what I
can to heal some of those wounds. If I can steady the
faith of a few Catholics who's worlds have been rocked
by his work, I will give thanks. If I can bring home
some departed brethern who might not otherwise have
considered the Catholic Church, I will give thanks.
Other than that, my conversion truly had little or
nothing to do with being James White's sister. I spent
very little time during the months of my study
considering that connection. I was far more concerned
about being where God wanted me to be and
understanding His call on my life. I was too busy
coming to terms with the likes of Sts. Augustine,
Ignatius, Justin Martyr, Irenaeus, etc.
By the way, please pray for my family. God is moving
in mighty ways in my immediate family. Pray, pray,
pray.
God bless you!
Patty Patrick Bonds MI