Ive found out that....

[chocolateloverjen]

my boyfriend has lied ot me again, i dont know what to do.
I said i knew he was lying and then he started saying like follow your heart, what do you believe. Cause he knows i love him and that i follow my heart. I need to listern to my mind to, warnings and things and hes saying no to that.
Hes christian and ive been going out for a year n 3 month now and in long distant relationship. What should i do? I cant break up with him it would hurt me to much. But what can i do? Should i break up with him?
HELP

 

[Sketcher]

Tell him how much the lying hurts you and if he doesn't change or make the effort then break up with him.

 

[tas25]

Hey, you know lying is not good ecspecially in a relationship...but their are so many things to take into consideration what was said, the severity, the impact, who it impacted.....and most of all how sorry and repentant he was about it....God is a forgiving God, my boyfriend now fiancee, soon to be husband has lied to me in the past and lord knows I have lied to him, but we both have repented about it....and the truth is we all come short in one way or the other,


no man is perfect but the father.....So you cant expect perfection.....you can only strive towards perfections show him love and forgiveness....and let God do the rest.....Pray and lean not toward your own understanding but acknowledge God and he will direct your path!

 

[Leanna]

Yes you should break up with him if his word is going to mean nothing and he will always let you down. One time I was in love with a guy who would say something and then do something else and it broke my heart, eventually I had to realize that he wasn't good for me and that I was a better person when he wasn't around.

 

[MrsSeptemberPenguin]

Lying in a relationship especially is a big "no" Make sure he knows how it makes you feel. if he still doesn't care then break up with him. God has something better for you then more than likely

 

[loved]

What did he lie about??