I've been waiting 7 years to get married, what should I do?

[Dave-W]

These two have already been yoked together since they had sex and a baby.

A spiritual linkage from having sex - yes.
Married - NO.

 

[JacksBratt]

(Except) for the (last sentence) good advice.

These two have already been yoked together since they had sex and a baby. I can think of no church that would recommend this lady to leave.

True, it is time for her to stand her ground in regards to marriage and hopefully going to church if not with him then without him.

He might tag along later to church?

These things happen often when we don't follow Gods advise. No sex before marriage.

This old guy has finally realized that for all sin there will be a price to pay.

I know because I am still paying for some from over 50 years ago.

Key is to repent and try my best not to sin today and add to the wreckage of my past.

M-Bob

I disagree. This arrangement is not good, not healthy and not biblical.. If she does not do something... she will be locked in a one sided relationship with a dead beat who won't take responsibility for the things he is taking from her.

 

[chilehed]

He sounds like a narcissist.

^This. Lots of red flags, I bet that if she gives him ultimatums he'll give the barest compliance he can in order to keep stringing her along like he's been doing.