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it is over.

thiskasm

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My husband of 10 years told me 3 weeks ago he is filing for divorce. I am having a hard time understanding why he won't give it 1 more shot. I have depression, but I'm finally getting the help I need. He began smoking pot at the end of 2010, and things have gone downhill since then. I still love him, and he is the father of my two daughters. Could the divorce be God's plan, or is it from Satan? How can I tell? How do I let him go and move on? How do we tell our girls? They are 7 and 5. My heart breaks when I think of them having to deal with this. Never in a million years did I think I would end up divorced.
 

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I also said a prayer.
Sounds like he also is having some issues as well. Like maybe he is depressed as well.

It would be nice if you both got some counseling. If your getting that help now, it would be good to bring him in to get some personal help and then maybe the two of you could deal with some things together. Of course he has to be willing.
 
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