My husband of 10 years told me 3 weeks ago he is filing for divorce. I am having a hard time understanding why he won't give it 1 more shot. I have depression, but I'm finally getting the help I need. He began smoking pot at the end of 2010, and things have gone downhill since then. I still love him, and he is the father of my two daughters. Could the divorce be God's plan, or is it from Satan? How can I tell? How do I let him go and move on? How do we tell our girls? They are 7 and 5. My heart breaks when I think of them having to deal with this. Never in a million years did I think I would end up divorced.