It hurts

[Jo1]

Hi
Is anyone like me. If i am to describe myself I am a very sensitive person. I hurt easily. I feel left out when people ask other people in front of you to come round their house and they dont ask you. Am I being too sensitive? I try to shrug it off that it doesnt matter, but I guess it does.

 

[luv4HIM]

i know how that feels and i must say it does hurt. you are not "over sensitive", how you feel is how you feel. i am sure that there are tactful ways of letting someone know how you feel about being slighted, i of course do not have any tact within me, so hopefully some one else can tell you how to do it.

 

[WhiteRain]

Hi
Is anyone like me. If i am to describe myself I am a very sensitive person. I hurt easily. I feel left out when people ask other people in front of you to come round their house and they dont ask you. Am I being too sensitive? I try to shrug it off that it doesnt matter, but I guess it does.

I don't think you're over-sensitive at all. I think it's kind of rude for people to ask while you're standing there, esp. if it's an event/activity they know you would've enjoyed too.

One of my own pet peeves is when I'm talking to someone, but that person is busy waving or saying hi to other people who pass by etc. - sometimes even starting another conversation in the middle of mine! That hurts.... *sniffles*

I lack tact too. I either get really upset or go quiet - don't have any advice there, sorry!

 

[HannahBanana]

No, you're not over-sensitive, you're just a human being with emotions, and sometimes those emotions are triggered quite easily. Sorry you're going through this, though. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

 

[Jo1]

I don't think you're over-sensitive at all. I think it's kind of rude for people to ask while you're standing there, esp. if it's an event/activity they know you would've enjoyed too.

One of my own pet peeves is when I'm talking to someone, but that person is busy waving or saying hi to other people who pass by etc. - sometimes even starting another conversation in the middle of mine! That hurts.... *sniffles*

I lack tact too. I either get really upset or go quiet - don't have any advice there, sorry!

Yes I know what you mean

 

[Taylor43]

no you are not over reacting i can relate to you soo much and it does hurt when you are not invited to a event and in a face to face conservation.