Do we have to choose Him (God), and does or did or does he already know that or those choices, way, way, way, ahead of time, like, before even making us the way we are...? And, that's another thing, did he make us the way we are, including all of how we would all (supposedly) "choose" ect...?
I'm not trying to attack you at all, in fact I really like your post, it's just that, we seem to have some need to have "everything figured out", and all to few will just "take it on faith", so to speak, that the all-knowing, fully omniscient from the very beginning, and from the very beginning to it's, and each one of ours, ending(s); "God", is "good"...
The One who made those and made "all" the way they are, or it is... including how they or you or me will and will not choose, etc, and who will go to either heaven or hell, based on His choices and decisions to choose us, and having already chose us from the beginning according to "how He made us", (to be one of the saved or spared ones, etc) and not necessarily our choice to choose Him, or due to how we made or make ourselves, but by His choices and making alone, ect... although that is the way it would "seem" from "our point of view", (that we must choose Him), and, from our point of view, that choice does matter, and matters very much so, and is very crucial, even if that choice has already been made, and already made up for you, by this particular "God" that I speak of... Who is the Highest God, etc... God the Father, Jesus Father, and our Heavenly Father, etc...
Anyway, I could go on, but, do you have the faith that this God is good...?
Because I'm wondering if that God is not the God that the OP or original poster is talking about or not...?
God Bless!