What you are saying is very interesting, Chris. I feel as if you are saying it to be nasty and stir the pot, but I happen to agree with you in this sense: As a Christian I certainly have my requests. When God gives me what I want, I am thankful. When God doesn't, it's not as if I forget that I had chosen "heads" and gotten tails. What I acknowledge is that God knows every single thing about my life, from before its beginning to after its last breath, and I have faith that when He says "no", or "not yet"..... it is ULTIMATELY meant for my best. And that doesn't mean that I like it. It just means that since I love God, I never really feel that I have gotten the wrong side of the coin.