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Is this lieing?

Tiberius

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Lying is deliberately giving false information.

If you say you are over 18 when you are actually under 18, and you are aware that you are under 18 and also aware that you are saying you are over 18, then yes, you are lying.

However, there are degrees of lying. This is probably pretty minor compared with a lie along the lines of, "I swear, I didn't put cyanide in the gazpacho."
 
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stan1980

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On a game i play on the terms and agreements it says Only 18 years or older can accept this i am under 18. My parents have said i can play so if i click it is that lieing?

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It is a lie, and it is immoral. A very marginal sin probably, but still a lie. It does not matter whether the rule is stupid or not. The game site has no obligation to provide you with the service, and thus it is their right to stipulate whatever terms they please for its use.
 
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cantata

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I say go for it; worse things happen at sea.

Now, people who lie about their age to be able to use dating sites, on the other hand, need to be told where to get off :p A fifteen-year-old girl tried to chat me up once, claiming to be 19. Erk.
 
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NostalgicGranny

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If it is not the truth than yes, it's lying.


I've never really found anywhere in the bible that says "some" lies are ok. In fact the bible says that a sin done even if you are expecting a good outcome, is still a sin.

And also God lumps liars right next to murderers. Same sentence - same outcome.

As human beings we are all sinners and fall short. Why add to it intentionally?
 
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And also God lumps liars right next to murderers. Same sentence - same outcome.

As human beings we are all sinners and fall short. Why add to it intentionally?

Because we inherently recognize that a moral system that equivocates murder and lying is an unjust one. Why prop up an unjust system?
 
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No, it isn't lieing. It is lying however.

Woo! You are learning, grasshopper :p

Just deal with that its/it's thing you've got going on sometimes and you'll be well on the way to fully-fledged pedantry ;) Welcome to the club!
 
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