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Disippelen said:
It is really sad when someone that call themselves christian behave not according to Christ's words of love. Being an evangelical, quite "fundamentalist", christian myself, I've also had "trouble" with certain forum-users here at CF. I think that it's okay to have strong opinions as long as you don't harrass others and discuss in a polite manner. Being a christian "fundamentalist", should really mean that you're a Christ-love fundamentalist. :)

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We could try to be polite, another solution.
 
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We could try to be polite, another solution.

We could do something else. I have never ever seen it done here.
We could stop. ... when we run into a snag and pray together. There is a saying that "families that pray together stay together. Well, we are all part of the family of God, we do not do that here.
Jesus commanded us to love one another. Nowhere in scripture did he say we should judge one another.
Lot of that judging goes on around here. Not enough loven and surely not enough praying.

So catlover, you tell me, do you think it is a Christian Forum?
Love you and that is for sure! :clap:
 
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I have also seen a lot of questionable behaviour from self-proclaimed Christians on the forums. But what saddens me most is that I've encountered the most intolerance and downright nastiness from "Christians" I work with and even people in my own church. I've seen people make fun of others during a worship service. And lots of people ignoring others at church. How can Christians behave this way?
 
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Tonks said:
Depends on what one considers "Christian." Frankly, in large part CF is fundamentalist evangelical - a small subset of the more than 1.5 billion Christians in the world.

Scripture is called for here, I believe:

MT 7:13 "Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. [14] But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.
 
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Peaceful Dove said:
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Jesus commanded us to love one another. Nowhere in scripture did he say we should judge one another.
Lot of that judging goes on around here. Not enough loven and surely not enough praying.
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I agree with this, but how do you get people to stop judging - or if not that (as it's impossible with so many people posting) how do you get people to stop posting their personal judgments of who is or is not Christian. It's ridiculous. :(
 
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I agree with this, but how do you get people to stop judging - or if not that (as it's impossible with so many people posting) how do Blessings you get people to stop posting their personal judgments of who is or is not Christian. It's ridiculous. :(

Well, what do you think would happen if you answer their personal judgement by telling them you love them anyway and post a prayer blessing for them. You know actually post a prayer on line?
Don't you think God would honor that by softening their hearts?

Jesus says when someone insults you, you should give them a blessing in return, didn't he?

BLESSINGS
 
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catlover said:
John 13:34 .


34 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.



Matthew 5


4343Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.

44But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;

45That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.

46For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?

47And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so?



Matthew 5

10Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

11Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.

12Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.




Is this forum a Christian forum???

What I don't understand, is if you believe the verses you quoted, why do you now turn around and mumble and grumble about the reviling, persecution and cursing that occurs? :scratch:

Is it truly a surprise that there are "good" Christians and "bad" Christians?

For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that each one may receive what is due him for the things done while in the body, whether good or bad. 2Cor.5:10

Smile, we are all on the Lord's "candid camera". :D


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Wisdom's Child said:
Sometimes I wonder, but unfortunately it is against the rules to acuse individuals or groups of not being christian even if it is painfully evident that they are not.

All you can do is to accept that there are many false teachers and blatantly heretical and antichristian beliefs on this board and try to continue shining the light of Christ in the present darkness.


umm do you normally go around accusing people of not being christian?
 
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one thing to take into consideration is that even though people are Christian, it doesnt necessarily mean they are Christ like. we are humans, and we are sinful by nature. this means that all the pettiness and sarcasm thats being discussed is in our nature. we strive to do better; to be patient and mild, but invariably everybody (good Christian, bad Christian, non Christian) drops the ball. i think the true measure of a "good" Christian is what you do after you realized you dropped that proverbial ball.. are you capable of and willing to swallow your pride and admitting to your mistake? are you capable of and willing to take the high road? are you capable of and willing to agree to disagree? think about this the next time you find yerself stuck in one of those heated debates that get out of hand: are you representing Gods word, and all things spiritual, or are you lending credence to the pettiness of the secular world? it takes two to tango, and satan wants you to dance. dont buy into it. may God bless you all! :)
 
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I don't think software can be Christian, can it?

I guess I think this place is just like the world, it has:

  • people in it who do not claim to be Christians and act accordingly,
  • people who do claim to be Christians and act accordingly,
  • people who do not claim to be Christians who act more like Christians than some Christians, and
  • people who claim to be Christians who act like heathen.
 
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Peaceful Dove said:
We could do something else. I have never ever seen it done here.
We could stop. ... when we run into a snag and pray together. There is a saying that "families that pray together stay together. Well, we are all part of the family of God, we do not do that here.
Jesus commanded us to love one another. Nowhere in scripture did he say we should judge one another.
Lot of that judging goes on around here. Not enough loven and surely not enough praying.

So catlover, you tell me, do you think it is a Christian Forum?
Love you and that is for sure! :clap:


More prayer! I like the Peaceful Dove!! I love you! :)
 
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I have also seen a lot of questionable behaviour from self-proclaimed Christians on the forums. But what saddens me most is that I've encountered the most intolerance and downright nastiness from "Christians" I work with and even people in my own church. I've seen people make fun of others during a worship service. And lots of people ignoring others at church. How can Christians behave this way?


:sigh: I don't know.
 
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And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother. 1 John 4:21

Anyone who claims to be in the light but hates his brother is still in the darkness. Whoever loves his brother lives in the light, and there is nothing in him to make him stumble. But whoever hates his brother is in the darkness and walks around in the darkness; he does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded him. 1 John 2:9-11

So as christians, we should obey these words, and that should prohibit us from making fun of others, look down on them, or hurt them in any other way, ... except through lovingly and politely present to them the Word of God (which may sometimes hurt).

your brother in Christ

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LambiePie said:
That's fine for you, although you do not display a Catholic icon, but I do not agree with much of what the early church fathers (think Augustine onward) decided is truth. Certainly on a "Christian" forum, which supposedly welcomes equally all denominations of Christianity, I should not be told that I am wrong if I don't agree. :scratch:

Your final paragraph which I've quoted above is truth to me. Jesus = TRUTH :thumbsup:
Why would it be a Catholic icon, it could also be an Orthodox icon, or simply a cross. The RCC does not have a monopoly on the Apostolic and Antenicene Fathers. I agree with much of your statement, with the exception of St. Augustine, which I feel was too far removed from the source (fourth and fifth hand knowledge).
Beyond the Apostles, I accept those men who were taught directly from the Apostolic Fathers, but not much beyond that point.
By the time of the Council of Nicea, the corruption had gone too far.
 
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strayed said:
one thing to take into consideration is that even though people are Christian, it doesnt necessarily mean they are Christ like. we are humans, and we are sinful by nature. this means that all the pettiness and sarcasm thats being discussed is in our nature. we strive to do better; to be patient and mild, but invariably everybody (good Christian, bad Christian, non Christian) drops the ball. i think the true measure of a "good" Christian is what you do after you realized you dropped that proverbial ball.. are you capable of and willing to swallow your pride and admitting to your mistake? are you capable of and willing to take the high road? are you capable of and willing to agree to disagree? think about this the next time you find yerself stuck in one of those heated debates that get out of hand: are you representing Gods word, and all things spiritual, or are you lending credence to the pettiness of the secular world? it takes two to tango, and satan wants you to dance. dont buy into it. may God bless you all! :)


I suppose letting go of pride would make this forum more tolerable and Christ-like.
 
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