HuntingMan
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I guess Im different.If that's the choice I've got.
I guess I'd rather burn then put my little one through a divorce and broken family.
Id want my child raised by BOTH parents (male and female) and if the biological parent was a cheating, abusive neanderthal...a step parent would be the next best thing.
But I guess Im biased seeing that as a step parent myself, I did my best to raise three kids that werent mine because their pathetic father would have only damaged them beyond repair....and their mother wasnt much better of an influence.
My step daughter has told me many times that had I not been there for them, that she doesnt really think they had a chance since daddy was a drunken womanizer and mommy was a dope head who kept abandoning them with babysitters and disappearing for weeks and months at a time ( before I even married her I had to go get her kids a number of times from b babysitters she ditched them with who were threatening to call children services).
Step parents arent the end of the world for many kids. Many times they are better than the biological parent could ever be.
Course, thats not the truth in the case of the drunken barbarian step father who raised me. But he was my inspiration, tho, since I used everything he WAS to determine what I DIDNT want to be
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