The 'victimless crime' argument as it pertains to homosexuality is in error, in my oppinion, for one simple reason. Sin is not synonymous with crime. Many, many things that are sin are not crime. Furthermore, when I began to study the Bible in detail I found several interesting things about sin that rarely get mentioned.
For one, avoiding sin at all costs is not even taught in the Old Testament, supposedly the stern and implacable face of God. Ecclesiastes 7:16 "Be not righteous overmuch..."
Secondly, the law is not to prevent sin, which makes sense since it could neither cure death nor remake man, but rather was for the benefit of teaching us all the difference between right and wrong, clean and dirty, good and evil. Romans 3:20 "...for by the law is the knowledge of sin." or Romans 7:7 "What shall we say then? Is the law sin? God forbid. Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, had not the law said, "Thou shalt not covet."
So the point of the law was never to justify or be a strict way to salvation. Even the law itself made allowance for sin in various offerings. The point is to learn something about what is good and what is bad. In that sense, it is written, none of the law passes away, but is fulfilled instead. This is important even for those who have no need to worry with the details of the law, because the clear implication is that there is nothing wrong with it, either then or now. So when someone comes and tries to make this or that part of the law seem rediculous, I would just like to say that it is disheartening to me that Christians often run for the hills. What if it would be a good idea for women to be covered in church? What if they really shouldn't be leaders or ministers of certain types? So what? The point of being a church is not to cater to those who don't even care about God or believe in Him in the first place. The church is a place for believers to strengthen one another.
It's also important to remember that we as Christians are not going to foul things up for God. God has known since before the foundations of the earth who were His and not. So if the Bible offends someone and they choose not to be a Christian because of that, it is not the fault of either the Bible, or the Christian who stands by what the Bible says, but of the person who judges God and rejects him in favor of their own judgements. And we are even warned that people will mock God, so it should come as no surprise to anyone.
To return then to the subject of homosexuality, so far we have several vague references to one possible couple, David and Jonathan, which are if looked at closesly clearly not married or having sex. We have multiple references to homosexuality, often in conjunction with idolatry. We have a reference to homosexuality in the new Testament naming it as a consequence in some of being given wholeheartedly over to sin because they refuse to maintain God in their thoughts. We have a very clear definition of the one acceptable sexual relationship, referred to time and time again as man and wife or husband and wife, words which have clear gender specific meanings. And we have a commandment in the New Testament that keeping clear of sexual sin is still a must for those who would follow God.
One last word on supposed 'consistent' interpretation. These books are not written in a code. They are not by any means unclear. Pouring through the Bible looking for a loophole of this or that sort is a bad sign, and the Bible makes specific reference to not be taken in by people who constantly argue over words and definitions, or fine points in the law, or whatever. For example, having looked into the concept of feet as genitals, I found that first, the word used for feet in the example given regarding Ruth is not the word that has that connotation, and second that even if it were, the context would make it clear that it was not sexual. Submisive and a bit sensual maybe, if you have a thing for feet, but certainly not sensual. So why was this put foreward? What difference does it make? It is just one more example of exactly what we are told explicitly NOT to do, which is argue around and around about words and definitions. Language is and has always been something of an inexact science, but neither English nor Hebrew are so complex that you can't tell by context what is going on in a given situation.
I have to admit, the feet one was a new one on me. I guess you learn something new every day. But please, read the whole scene and in context. Context should alwas be kept in mind when reading anything in any language.