Is there something wrong with me?

JPPT1974 · Jul 26, 2005

Hey I am 5'2" and 145 pounds. Not thin but definately not fat!

mina · Jul 26, 2005

Fatolia said:
Yeah, but those are all the married ones. The unmarried ones are as humble as bumblebees, right?

um no. Where in the world did you make up that from? There are single people with egos and married people with big egos. Just like there are single people without major egos and married people without major egos. Being married or single has nothing to do with it. Probably if a person was single and had a big ego, they are going to be a married person with a big ego.

Heiroglyph · Jul 26, 2005

mina said:
um no. Where in the world did you make up that from? There are single people with egos and married people with big egos. Just like there are single people without major egos and married people without major egos. Being married or single has nothing to do with it. Probably if a person was single and had a big ego, they are going to be a married person with a big ego.

That sounds reasonable to me!

Love&Pain · Jul 26, 2005

CR0C0DILE said:
You look alot like a woman I fell completely maddly in love with a couple years ago. Small chin, super high cheekbones and tall forehead! That is the french look which I love very much in a woman!

Who me? I am half italian but most people don't notice because of my dark skin color. I am also half spaniard. My father has family that lives in Sicily, Italy. My mother's side of the family are spaniards. I only know english though. My family history and culture has been lost.

winglovesall · Jul 27, 2005

Height and Size is not a matter for me -- as long as you're healthy.

I am 5'5'' (165 cm) and 110 lbs. (50 kgs) I have a waist length of 30 in. and I wouldn't call myself fat either.

fungku · Jul 27, 2005

You're beautiful and don't pay attention to anyone who says otherwise.

If someone calls you ugly, it's not because you are. It's because they are intending to hurt you.

JPPT1974 · Jul 27, 2005

fungku said:
You're beautiful and don't pay attention to anyone who says otherwise.

If someone calls you ugly, it's not because you are. It's because they are intending to hurt you.

That is also Satan's intentions of letting you down. So don't let Satan get to you either. Just ignore it and move on!

Fatolia · Jul 28, 2005

mina said:
um no. Where in the world did you make up that from? There are single people with egos and married people with big egos. Just like there are single people without major egos and married people without major egos. Being married or single has nothing to do with it. Probably if a person was single and had a big ego, they are going to be a married person with a big ego.

Exactly. I made it up. I think you ended up hitting the logic of the topic accurately.

Love&Pain · Jul 28, 2005

I am 5'4 and 135 pounds. I am supposely in the weight frame for having a medium frame but I still feel over weight. I could lose weight in the stomach area and thighs.

Sketcher · Jul 28, 2005

No you shouldn't.

Love&Pain · Jul 28, 2005

twistedsketch said:
No you shouldn't.

Why not?

Sketcher · Jul 28, 2005

Because in all your pics you look thin.

Love&Pain · Jul 28, 2005

twistedsketch said:
Because in all your pics you look thin.

Thank you. I don't think I am fat or skinny but medium. I do not want to give you the impression that I have an eating disorder but I can tigthen my muscles and lose at least 10 pounds of fat. You can't see my whole body in the pic anyways silly.

Sketcher · Jul 28, 2005

I can make good guesses. After all, I've taken several life drawing classes. I need to know that stuff.

But don't concentrate on losing fat, concentrate on being healthy.

Bloomin' Pyro · Jul 28, 2005

love4jesus said:
I am 5'4 and 135 pounds. I am supposely in the weight frame for having a medium frame but I still feel over weight. I could lose weight in the stomach area and thighs.

As far as I'm concerned, that's healthy. We could all stand to take better care of ourselves, and if God's telling you to do something, do it. Let me share a little, if you will:

I am 5'11" and 140 pounds. I turn sideways and practically disappear, I'm so skinny. In 6th grade, I was 4'1" and 75 pounds. People had me convinced I was fat. Not because they sat there and told me to my face, but just by how guys would talk about things from the perspective of "if you don't have muscle, then you're fat." I'm not fat by any stretch of the imagination, nor do I have very much muscle. So, because I didn't have muscle, I thought I was fat.

Gradually, I took a bit of a "forget what the world says" attitude, and that has recently turned to a "listen to what God says" attitude. The world has its facts and figures and statistics and charts and graphs up the wazoo, but what matters is what God is telling you to do.

You remember Mary Poppins, the old school British nanny version with Julie Andrews? She has this tape measure, but instead of giving you your height, it tells you something about your personality. The little boy is spoiled rotten, the little girl is stuck up, and Mary is "practically perfect in every way." From my perspective (for what it matters), I see it like this: you're somewhere between "Beautiful" and "Wow."

One last thing: you may not look like a blonde bombshell bimbo, and I highly doubt that's your goal. But you've been blessed with the figure you have. A girl with a skinny little figure will be abused in the minds of men, whereas a girl with more fullness in her body will be respected by those who get to know her. They may not think you're the most attractive person they've ever seen, but when they learn to love your spirit, they learn to love you.

Rob

the_man · Jul 28, 2005

love4jesus said:
Why do I feel that I cannot get a boyfriend because I am not pretty?

Because someone lied to you and told you that you weren't pretty (also you in a relationship at the moment).

love4jesus said:
I keep telling myself that if I lost weight, got my scars removed, if I had bigger breasts, normal hearing, no mole on my neck, and nice hair someone would like me.

Perhaps. But they'll only like you cos you lost weight, removed scars bigger breats, normal hearing, a removed mole and nice hair. Surely there is more to you than this.

love4jesus said:
All the wrong guys like me, guys that are weird. I don't know why I feel that a lot of guys only like girls for their beauty.

Heh, you mean all the guys are aren't attracted to like you. That happens.

Simple fact is that guys like girls they are attracted to. This isn't the only reason to date a girl, but it is not a small one. Girls also like to feel that they are attractive to a guy. What woman wants a guy that admits that she is downright unattractive but he is able to get over the unattractiveness because of her inner quailities...yeah right.

As a neutral observer that has seen a few pictures of you, physical attraction is not the reason you don't have a boyfriend (as you have admitted yourself, it is not like there haven't been opportunities).

koban4max · Jul 28, 2005

Why is people worrying about if they are fat or skinny...be happy.

Love&Pain · Jul 28, 2005

twistedsketch said:
I can make good guesses. After all, I've taken several life drawing classes. I need to know that stuff.

But don't concentrate on losing fat, concentrate on being healthy.

Yes exactly! I need to cut down on sodas, candy, chocolate, fast food, and other unhealthy foods. I also need to drink more water because I only drink 1 a day. Life drawing classes? Is that when you draw a naked person?

Woman_of_The_Word · Jul 28, 2005

First, off you know you are beautiful because it you didn't know than why would you put your profile picture if you were so self-conscious with the way you look. The problem is that you have a low self-confidence so you like to hear people tell you. Believe it, a lot of guys have told you how beautiful you look. If you are looking to be perfect, guess what you will never be happy. If you fix those problems you can always find another one. Accept who you are! Maybe you can't get a boyfriend because of your attitude toward yourself. Men are not only attracted to a woman's beauty but her personality. If you feel that you have to lose weight then eat heathlier and exercise, that is something you can change without surgery or a miracle. You look fine to me, if you are worrying about how you are going to look when you make love to your husband you shouldn't. I hear a lot of my girl friends say that they are afraid their husbands are not going to want to have intimate relations with them if they gain weight. It doesn't matter what anyone thinks about you, look and feel good for yourself. Don't judge your beauty based on what someone else says.

fungku · Jul 28, 2005

Woman_of_The_Word said:
Don't judge your beauty based on what someone else says.

Exactly!

Especially someone whose only intention is to hurt you

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